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aliljaded 53F
23952 posts
4/23/2017 1:07 pm
Some Facts On Emotional Manipulators ....

Some Facts on Emotional Manipulators

1. They can’t be trusted. No matter what you say, they’ll turn the situation around so they seem like they’re a victim, and have been unfairly judged.

2. They leave you feeling crazy, or mixed up and confused. They’ll twist your words and motives so you feel misunderstood - and they rationalize their actions so you seem unreasonable.

3. They’re great at making you feel guilty or “bad”. Nothing you can do or say is ever right to them. No matter what you try, you know it always will be wrong.

4. They are passive aggressive. They’ll smile to your face and they’ll stab you in the back … and they’ll gladly talk about you … and pass along mean gossip.

5. They have the ability to manipulate the emotional climate in a group. So, if they’re feeling happy, and life is going well, they’re the life of the party and everyone must smile. But when their life is tough then they’ll moan, groan and complain … and they’ll make sure everybody feels miserable as well.

6. They are self-absorbed and a law unto themselves. Life is always by their rules - and everything revolves around them. They’re not accountable - and they will always please themselves.

Being in school for two years and taking a few psychology courses has taught me a bit about this type of manipulator. Plus I've been around them my entire life. I'm beginning to spot them quickly and learning to run as soon as I see them coming.


"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


Hard2LoveNurse 66F
9492 posts
4/23/2017 6:13 pm

I love this...
I know a few people like this and you have to keep your distance.
Thanks for sharing!!


"Seeking soul-mate!! Seduce my mind and you can have my body, touch my soul and I’m yours forever! "


celtdragn 53F
283 posts
4/23/2017 5:58 pm

thanks for sharing this was very well written and I agree with the fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Living and learning each day.


1uncommondom 77M

4/23/2017 3:59 pm

Excellence post


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
4/23/2017 3:56 pm

Thanks for posting this!

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


marshamay 35F
5934 posts
4/23/2017 2:11 pm

yes , they do try . I like it when they try to claim your argument as theirs .


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7020 posts
4/23/2017 1:31 pm

Atta girl! Don't let them get away with their dirty tricks.


aliljaded 53F
8847 posts
4/23/2017 1:09 pm

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me!

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”



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