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tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
4/17/2017 7:24 am

Perhaps you're not ready yet?

However what works for me is sexy lingerie, either wearing it or buying new online as even just browsing can 'help' x


sageof45 78M
33 posts
4/17/2017 7:48 am

Good morning still I think! This old fart perv suggests getting into a lurid chat where needs and desires, masturbation fantasies are shared.

But that is just my thinking. What say you? -- Ernie


Raven_GB 62M
854 posts
4/17/2017 8:55 am

Let's organise a sex-drive!


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7016 posts
4/17/2017 9:01 am

I've discovered that my sex drive is self starting when my brain thinks about an inspirational female, even if she is not present. Conversely, sometimes a present, naked, reasonably attractive female who is not inspirational can fail to awaken my sex drive. Inspiration, I find, is derived from her attitude.

I have also discovered that my sex drive competes with other drives. I can repress or, more correctly perhaps, replace my sex drive, usually unconsciously, through a powerful alternate drive: ambition, intense curiosity or interest, repelling a threat. Some of these alternatives, however, ambition in particular, will also in time heighten my sex drive and the two drives will work to reinforce each other in tandem.

What can I say? I'm not a one-trick pony.


rosaenaluin 65F
10779 posts
4/17/2017 9:38 am

hmm, i dont know, my 'perv-o-meter', is something i control, is always on, dormant but on.

according to my agenda, program of that week, day, i orgasm as it comes, on a daily frequentie... i dont need very much stimilant... from the outside.... just the privacy of my own home....

Just thinking of how it would be, to just meet that one man....i am not interested in the sexkinky play...

i am interested in the whole Master-slave 24/7 real life dynamic...relation....
that is enough to stir something up....
It is all in my head....


drmgirl622 68F  
25821 posts
4/17/2017 12:22 pm

Yes, my meter is always running. There is always that wanting and craving to find that One. I can be sitting with a group of friends around the pool and my thoughts wander......this sounds silly but shopping for shoes perks me up. Now I do not have a shoe fetish in any way but as I hold it in my hand I can picture the woman wearing it......seeing her walk across the room towards me......you see what I mean, the meter is always running

Maybe the fact you've just gotten out of a LTR has dulled some of those senses. Let yourself heal from the relationship and slowly your meter will be looking for tokens.


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
4/18/2017 4:31 am

Love that picture.

Like you i took some time out after my last relationship. Almost a year (i just couldn't be arsed ! )
My appetite however never diminished, i became like a teenage boy. Still am some days ! (twice this morning thanks to a very sexy email)

I have no doubt yours will return when your truly ready. Maybe start with you first, do things for yourself that make you smile, makes you happy and feel good.
Personally, music works well for me. It helps me get out of a funky mood and feel good again and feel sexy x

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn



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