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tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
11/30/2015 11:33 am

It is interesting how we all view our lifestyle differently. I am with you on the pain slut front. I am not one, not at all. However I tolerate it and accept some pain from my Dominant (although it isn't the main part of our play, at times there is none) but could never imagine asking or wanting a stranger to do it.

This whole worthless pig thing isn't for me either, not at the receiving or giving end. But then we are all different. I like my submissive to be an angel, start from beauty and then dip in deep into that sweet darkness. In terms of my own submission it is a ever changing and evolving, and not only easy, journey.

We are all different.


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
12/1/2015 2:33 pm

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Yes, it's hard to say firstly who is here for real and not just one of the 'fakes' but also who will actually go all the way? I've heard from others how people turn up to agreed meets etc.

Perhaps we are also still suffering from the Fifty Shades phenomenon and there are many out there who want it all but in their terms (not necessarily very submissive then, right?). Having said that I am hardly qualified to say much as I struggle with my own submission at times but I DO very much submit although I am honest when I am having a hard time with it. And he listens, loosens his leash when needed and usually pulls me gently back (or less gently if he feels that approach being more appropriate).



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