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We make our own hand basket in life live, learn and forget
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I actually don't know what a narc is (or an ex narc was) and google didn't help. Setting that aside, if your son's with you and you've established the rules and boundaries then it's up to your ex to follow them, not to question them. He ought to be supporting you not undermining you (though obviously if you're regularly feeding him unhealthily it's worth having an adult conversation about it away from the child). Still, despite that, if it's rare he visits I think I'd take it easy unless it's important stuff; kind of like when your parents visit and they do all sorts of stuff you don't approve of - including stuffing sweets down your kids throats - but you stay quiet for an easy life knowing it's only a day or a few days. It's not a matter of not being assertive it's just a matter of only fighting the battles that are worth the energy that will be used in fighting Contact me privately via the PM at the head of my blog page
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I actually don't know what a narc is (or an ex narc was) and google didn't help. Setting that aside, if your son's with you and you've established the rules and boundaries then it's up to your ex to follow them, not to question them. He ought to be supporting you not undermining you (though obviously if you're regularly feeding him unhealthily it's worth having an adult conversation about it away from the child). Still, despite that, if it's rare he visits I think I'd take it easy unless it's important stuff; kind of like when your parents visit and they do all sorts of stuff you don't approve of - including stuffing sweets down your kids throats - but you stay quiet for an easy life knowing it's only a day or a few days. It's not a matter of not being assertive it's just a matter of only fighting the battles that are worth the energy that will be used in fighting Contact me privately via the PM at the head of my blog page
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hello there Ms Wonderful, its good to see ya.
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