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BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
1664 posts
5/27/2015 9:30 pm
Changes


I recently returned from a vacation with my sub/hubby staying home locked. And before you ask, no it was not a kinky vacation this time around. While I was gone I did some thinking about the way we have been doing things and things that can be changed to make our relationship much better.

I have had total control with how we play for pretty much 22 years now. However, it seems that there is more to this lifestyle if we pushed it a little more. One of the ways is his chastity control. In the past I had been far more strict on his cock being locked up but it seems that recently he hasn't spent as long a time in it, or I was letting him out more often for the slightest reasons. While he still wasn't allowed to cum there is a big difference in his attitude when he is locked and unlocked. Part of that may be that he is thinking that he will cum at any time.

Another thing that has not happened much lately is his wearing his panties. My rule is that if the panties are out for him to wear then that means he has no cock for the next 24 hours. The panties were a psychological head game for him in that he knew that he would not be allowed to cum. Also, his cock would not be played with or teased if he had to wear them. At least in his CB he was teased through the cage or balls.

So since I have been back, I've decided that he will be in chastity and/or panties a lot more often. I unlocked him a couple of days ago as I wanted to have sex and let him cum, but today he found his leopard print panties laid out for him to wear. So while I may cum tonight, he won't, at least not in front. Another reason that he will be able to be in chastity more often is that his vanilla life has quit being so demanding and opened up so that he can wear the device at work again. It was nice teasing him through text messages today while he was in his panties.

We started to play with others a little more often and that is another thing that I want to continue to do While I have always had the option to have sex with others at any time, I have not really capitalized on that agreement. While I'm not saying I will be having sex with every and anyone, it is something that I will look more closely at, or more closely at the size of a cock that I might be playing with.

In addition we bought a smaller "fucking machine" that I intend to put to good use to keep him in denial for longer periods of time. It will be very nice having him tied up and watching, or if I'm in a sadistic mood blindfolded, while I use it.

Those are some of the changes for now. There will be more as we get back into a more proper D/S mode. Doing too many things at once might not work well.

Ms. Jay
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makinkycpl 66M/65F
208 posts
5/29/2015 4:16 am

Sounds like a great plan for him and you!!! Enjoy....



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