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InderioMinx 54F  
19798 posts
8/3/2015 7:14 pm

Cuddling? Yes please
Ok, let me add,,, it has to be with the right boy. I just cannot cuddle with anyone and not big on being touched, hugged, etc... by just anyone. No gratuitous groping allowed...

What kind of cuddling? I get your description of the trapped feeling. There has only been one, so far, that I will allow to be wrapped around me skin-to-skin like your drowning man/lifesaver analogy. Though, that has a time limit to it. Typically I like just enough ~ lots of skin-to-skin, but still room to move. Him half draped across me or visa versa... that is a very nice balance for me.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


sprinkels88 56F
793 posts
8/3/2015 7:45 pm

I love been in a man's arms. I feel safe and protected.


lastguymn 56M

8/3/2015 9:20 pm

Cuddling is awesome...one of the best parts of being in love...but, like all good things, you can have too much, and almost everybody benefits from time apart as well.

~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


benoite 104F
6238 posts
8/3/2015 10:49 pm

Cuddling is good for me as long as it feels optional.
I dislike being "forced" into someone's embrace
and want to be able to move away, if I need to.
It's quite the same with bondage.
I like it as long as I'm able to breathe freely,
but being coiled up and bound CAN make meclautrophobic.
B


Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde


kittykitty1260 63F
15748 posts
8/4/2015 1:12 am

We've somehow found a somewhat perfect cuddle position whereas I my nose is not nestled to close to his armpit and he doesn't get that dead arm,.. it's comfortable enough to last that way into sleep.

Oddly enough I never cuddled with my ex, guess it took the right set of arms to make me comfortable...

“Who says life is fair, where is that written?”
― William Goldman, The Princess Bride


Hard2LoveNurse 66F
9492 posts
8/4/2015 12:17 pm


I used to love being all wrapped up. Feeling safe and secure in his arm.
But as of late, I prefer to snuggle, or spoon, but still be able to move, readjust the ole body!! Sucks getting old, ok should say sucks as the body matures.


"Seeking soul-mate!! Seduce my mind and you can have my body, touch my soul and I’m yours forever! "


jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
8/4/2015 3:22 pm

zafti

I like to cuddle lying next to each other....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


aHedonist 51M
7510 posts
8/9/2015 4:34 am

Sophi is the human limpet. I likes it, and wouldn't have her any other way, and we sleep entwined most of the night.
Before that... Depended on the person, but I'm a touch person with those I care about.

I've got this thing where no matter how cold my left foot always is out from under the covers. Just sayin.



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