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I have just been lurking for some time - just checking in periodically to see what's going on but I HAVE TO comment on this one. Aftercare is the responsibility of the Dom. I see it as part of the whole package. If the Dom wants an intense session for whatever reason - training, punishment, sadistic need, etc - He should have already factored in the aftercare as part of His planning. Period.
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aftercare is not a discussion..it is a given if your relationship is genuine...
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It should not need to be asked for. I can understand an experienced submissive/bottom communicating such to a brand new dominant/top. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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NO she should NOT at least not generally. But from my experience it can happen sporadically that even a responsible Dom underestimates a situation. I remember a scene which had been emotionally demanding AND painful beyond our usual level. And for once G-Dom didn't recognise my extended need for aftercare . I felt lost and didn't get my feet back on the ground. I think that in cases like this we should clearly communicate our needs instead of feeling abandonned and experience sub drop. B Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde
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I agree with the majority ~ No. But, I do believe in communication. If you need more or something different, then yes, by all means, ask.
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you should not have to settle ....for what is rightfully yours after giving your all....it is the intimacy afterwards that makes you realize everything is right with your relationship...
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