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foxyloner 52M
41 posts
9/30/2016 8:19 am

no words...
hug and caresses on back...


slaveforyou365 63M  
4485 posts
9/30/2016 8:20 am

Very sorry to hear that.

Slave rick


Lady_Pheonix 54F
63 posts
9/30/2016 8:35 am

it's not your fault
people sometimes wander the world looking for what they cannot see is right before them
some fall from a path they cannot see for looking
i know you, i know you better, i know you still will not give up on her
stay strong, if there is a way, you will find it
love you loads Jozz
if you need me........ i am here


OnlyOneBarry 63M

9/30/2016 9:04 am

You're fine posting that here. Those of us here that are real are your family as well. We are a community that reaches beyond kink. My heart truly goes out to you. I wish I had the ultimate words to say, but I'm afraid I do not.


Kahlan2 87F
285 posts
9/30/2016 9:19 am

Love, light and energy sent to you and your daughter. So sorry. May she turn her life around and embrace the wonderful Mother you are.


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
9/30/2016 9:30 am

Awful. I am so sorry.


Raven_GB 62M
854 posts
9/30/2016 10:28 am

Jozz, it might be that she knows that she's hurting you which was why she couldn't look at you and had to leave quickly. But she will also know that her mother will always be there for her. She's the only one who can save herself, just try to keep the chance of communication open. As they say, one must first touch bottom before they can make for the surface. Don't blame yourself - you can't know what is going on in her life, but at least she was there today.

best wishes,

Mike


msfunfor 63M
10580 posts
9/30/2016 10:31 am

hello ,
it can be turned around . it is Very difficult .
the one thing above all other is sticking with her .
make clear she is Always welcome (and hide your valuables) .

at least you live in a more "enlightened" country ( other than US where
there is only crime and Punishment ) when it comes to help and recovery .
if your heart is really shattered then you don't have to fear anything else .
,,,,,,,,so go and fight and hope she might "wake" up .

i am sorry , there is no easy way .

be good
M

.


HannahFun4U 44F  
374 posts
9/30/2016 10:44 am

My thoughts are with you in this difficult time. My heart hurts for you.


purr2015 61F
2 posts
9/30/2016 11:11 am

O Jozz, there are no words that will help with your pain and loss, ( I wish there were) cause I would shout them out, loud enough for you both to hear ........... but shes not listening, because of that bloody awful drug!!

Please keep strong


drmgirl622 68F  
25821 posts
9/30/2016 11:28 am

I know that all the kind words in the world won't bring her back to you right now but life has so many twists and turns, you just don't know.

My arms are around you and I'm always here to listen.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7016 posts
9/30/2016 12:42 pm


My heart aches for you.

It's brutal.

I went through this with my father when I was 6. I saw him fleetingly, off and on until I was 15, when he really came back and lived sober for another fifty years. Miracles do happen.

Many years later he told me how it was, how it had to be.

She's beyond your reach now. She has to do it herself. She has to recognize what's happened and want to change herself.

All you can do is beg, pray, plead with whatever angels might still be watching over her to take care of her until she sees the light for herself. It's hard, but when it's gone this far she has to hit rock bottom, look death in the face, or she won't come up for air.

Just hold on to your hope. There's nothing else left for you to do.

namaste~




InderioMinx 54F  
19778 posts
9/30/2016 5:33 pm

Sending positive thoughts to you Jozz.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
10/1/2016 2:29 pm

Perhaps don't totally close the door. Perhaps one day she is ready to come back and she would then need a place to rest, rest, rest and break down and then hopefully heal in a loving and non-judgemental way. Try to find a way to keep telling her how much you love her and how beautiful you know she is. Maybe there will be a day, the right time that she will hear and it and reach out to you crying.

(Perhaps research suitable rehabs in advance just in case as it can't be really confusing when you are finally ready to help so to have someone with a plan in place already can help.)

Sending you loads of strength and love xx


McGripper 54M

10/6/2016 5:47 pm

That's grim, big hug!

The opinions and understanding portrayed in my blog are mainly unfounded, misguided or wrong.


braider24 43M
280 posts
10/7/2016 2:02 am

sorry to hear , keep stong


AlwaysMercy 59F  
205 posts
10/21/2016 6:15 pm

Hugs and hopes to both of you.


jesse556 68M
12 posts
10/22/2016 5:23 pm

i too have been there it dosent get easier we tried kidnapping and boot camp and all the suggested help ideas and here it is forty years later and my son is still durg addicted and living in a park until they want help there is little to be done but pray and be there for them if you can handle it


sageof45 78M
33 posts
10/28/2016 8:20 am

Not one to normally reply, but this one got to me. Stay with her, let her know that when she is ready, you have no doubt already done this many times, but repeat it at every opportunity, you will be there to support her.

Shut down her source! Find out where she gets it from and report them! They are killing her for greed. They have built this dependency in her to use her without regard for her, or her value as a human being. She is no doubt not the only one they have on the hook, and they need to be shut down.

Have the courage to do what you must to keep her and others alive. find support groups and every legal and law enforcement avenue you can to shut down her source!

Wish you well, and all the courage you can muster. DO NOT GIVE UP, OR IN!



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