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eroticallyincldn 70F
1635 posts
10/11/2014 9:52 am

an opinion is something important to respect..either way...

Your Dominant should know your likes and dislikes ...and respect something that is so simple..and really unimportant in the big picture..

Just Saying...xo


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
10/11/2014 1:03 pm

Excuse me, but I don't think that submissive means, doormat, mindless, tasteless, has no right to an opinion. Does it?
Well, that's my opinion
I like the color yellow -bright yellow, especially on a woman. However, if I knew that my certain someone did not, I would not impose it on her. Why sand across a persons grain when there is no point to it!

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
10/14/2014 12:30 pm

    Quoting  :

JS,
I very well see your point, and I must agree that what you say here makes sense. Furthermore, after rereading the post a little closer this time, I believe that I took it out of true context in my first reading.
This post, as I see it now, is not as much about submitting, as it is about pleasing. In which case, again, your point is correct, mine wrong.

Thanks for the welcome, and the smiles

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
10/15/2014 6:59 am


Like!

Acquiescence is good.
Doing what I ask is brilliant; and hopefully so's the giving in time.

Soft/hard limits are pretty common I reckon. Must be hundreds of'em.

I'll inquire about the hard, stretch teh soft...just to see if time or comfort or self-trust changes anything.

Even so, either they will or they won't...annnd it works better for ME exponentially better in fact - to feel okay, whatever happens.

Y_UT
BD~
P
xoxoxos

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
10/15/2014 2:21 pm

    Quoting  :

Hey baby!
")
isn't obedience one of the key features of a D/s relationship?

If you mean D/S as in Doc_sonar, then "no/sorta...I reckon".

If you mean that other meaning, then, y, I suppose,..

I prefer 'Orchestration/acquiescence' orrr 'Un_ness' if you like where "'submission' is doing what I say, just, only if you WANT to,.. ''
If not...I feel ~ unfulfilled ~ IMAGINITIVELY or inspirationally lacking.

That's prolly not BDSM...
Oops.

Your Un_Dom Twin..
BD~
P
xoxoxos,

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace



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