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DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
9/23/2014 4:41 am

I have expressed something similar the past. I call it the kid in the Candy Store effect. There simply are too many choices and time is not constant on the internet. It compresses and expands, purely by whim it seems.

I watch quite a bit. I note who seems grounded and realistic. I avoid those who do on line role play they live in a fantasy video game world in my experience.

In day to day life (non internet) we are able to not interact with the needy, messed up, the user, abusers, insecure, manipulators far easier. Here in chat rooms and easy access profile land, they are nearly forced into out face,

I find those who blog about day to day lives are more interesting than those who only go to chats or simply peruse profiles and send email approaches. I really wonder if vanilla outfits like match, cupid etc are any more effective than this place.

I have backed away from paid membership,simply because I do not expect I will really connect with anyone other than on a friendship basis. Call me jaded, but I don't think that is it. Maybe I am just tired of searching for a partner.

Best to you.

Best to you.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Plzrmeister 67M  
10144 posts
9/23/2014 6:50 am

That made My head hurt....

You'll figure it out eventually.

Make Women Female Again


cuzisaid 53F  
14988 posts
9/23/2014 1:50 pm

Most questions we try to answer have never been asked of us. Everything else...?

Oo ee oo ah ah ting tang walla walla bing bang!

Witchdoctors are rarely wrong. Mostly cuz no one is brave enough to tell em so. It still works. That kinda crazy makes even crazy...sane.

If only 1% of folks here are legit and the other 99% are just here killin spare time, does the time I spent alongside(not WITH) them count? Nah, I wasnt doing anything else either. Its like plopping on the couch after a long say and watching a TV show you've never seen before.
You dont know the people in it, what the plot or storyline is and you dont know whats gonna happen. You have your ideas and ideal plot and ending but, it isnt really your show. You can turn it on, off or up at anytime. You can even walk away knowing you've set it to play back later, but.........love it? Nah.
Know it? Not really? Wanna produce your own version? Only if you've got balls of steel and brains of mush, but then again.....you do still have all that extra time on your hands

The ones that are meant to matter, stand out quickly and consistently. consistently *nods* No questions asked

Cliff notes version of the game players bible is kinda cool to read though.

I love chocolate, cheesecake, my mama, my kid, John Berry's version of Oh Holy Night, rum n coke w/ a cheeseburger, star filled skies and God.

Everyone and thing else is optional. Happy Hunting

Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black
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~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


tahimikdrifter 53M
8008 posts
9/23/2014 4:37 pm

What Cuz said, except "everyone else" is optional...I take exception to that, but then again...

Most people who get this website and those that spend time here, already know the point.



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