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Brandalynna  
18 posts
7/24/2014 12:32 pm

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7/24/2014 3:00 pm

♥۩۞۩♥ The mature age in the lifestyle when you Become a Master or Sub.♥۩۞۩♥

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When I got in to this was trained by Trainering Master at 18 but he was Canadian he was in his 50's. Yes young ones do have to learn from the older ones it how we learn. Its like a how a younger women learns to be a Lady from older Elder women. hes gotta start some were its good to learn From other Older Master and con pair notes. Thought about when I was younger but I wanted til I was legal age. Doesn't happen over night takes weeks months years but if you truly want this this be it live it and breath it. I have tried every device you have to try to like it Just because you see it or read it or watch does not always mean your in to it you much want this why you have to learn your limits as a Master/Daddy Dom and Sub/Baby Girl. Some like it soft some like heavy hard core but its based on a bond and trust not all about sex. I started in training in front of a mirror with my clothes of with my trainer behind me to see if I could be confident enough to bare to try with out hiding. If you don't like to be chained and locked up this not the lifestyle for you to be able to trust the person you have to have guts and know your protected and not freak out. yes there vanilla Daddy Dom/Babygirl that more for silk ties. There ones that like true BDSM to be tied and wear devices it could be in the middle play. But for Sado and Maso they are more heavy BDSM with whipping and being cained this takes years of experience as I get whipped I don't cry or wine I know its done out the Master pleasure to show the bruises that who made those. Try before you leap. Always get to know someone take your time Don't just jump in bed.

To understand but when I said age is a number I meant that you can always learn but yes starting at a younger age is best to learn to grow and mature in to a Better Master. So when your young you have all the time in those 20 years to learn so learn from your elders.

yes the Mature age for a man is 30 when he is stable and ready to settle down and his shit is together. Its very rare some do not mature really until there 40 and they want to settle say good by to the Bachelor life.

The same goes for a Women as being a Sub/Slave/Babygirl in training and the experience yes some men what a girl to be new or have experience. I get more dates with the experience level I have and the maturity and knowledge. But I don't jump in bed with every tom hick and harry I only share my energy with the right one. A girl also has to be trained in the lifestyle ether if she new or has years I still get training even tho I have years of experience to know my place and to remember it.

Yes the more experience you have in the lifestyle for a man or women yes this can help you find the right one.

A man that is mature and experienced invest in the lifestyle of BDSM to make sure he has a dungeon and the right tools not everyone can have a dungeon but the right tools do help the rack of whips and tools and toys. A lot of real experienced men are single and invest buying devices they may had a sub to train but they want the right one also. If you look around its the truth I seen it lived it because a lot of my older men friends are older.

Do you want Lazy Daddy Dom or Busy Master think about that. A Man that keep his self educated him self built the walls up to be what he his to have the experience that is the knowledge right there those are the true words of wisdom.

Even as a women you have to get your life straighten out getting in the lifestyle. I put my education first had to take care myself and become the lady that I am but with the training in BDSM. I know that I could not mess around or have hook up and have poping out because this I wanted to wait to be with the right one. In this day in age I really don't want or the baggage not many do also they want the girl to all them self's.

Younger women 18 to 24 this the called the bratty years because they are just getting in to this they need a Daddy Dom/Master touch guidance,protection,strictness of rules, punishment. I remember my bratty years using a babyish voice always being snotty well being whipped like they do it overseas got me to change. I did grow up in a strict household growing up but once you move out and on your own the brat come out and this why a Women needs a man its are nature to want this. I was mature but I was still a brat at 18-24. A women does not really mature until she is 25 some dont until they are 30 depends on how there life is how they were raised.

Do you want a lazy Sub/Baby or a Busy sub/Babygirl
Think about that.



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