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likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
10/4/2015 5:38 am
so let's talk kink..what's one thing you've been dieing to try


I think we all have a few things we'd luv to try, but either have a partner that just isn't into it or haven't found the right person yet.

So let's share

VirgoGirl78 45F
1272 posts
10/4/2015 6:11 am

Hot wax. Just gotta get the right candles to give it a go


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
10/4/2015 12:56 pm

Having a needle corset...my lover and I attempted it recently but it didn't look right. Another attempt needed.

And yes, be careful with the wax...I have a scar on my stomach from 2nd degree burns from an unfortunate mishap. Not pleasant.


VirgoGirl78 45F
1272 posts
10/4/2015 6:46 pm

    Quoting eliza1234:
    Having a needle corset...my lover and I attempted it recently but it didn't look right. Another attempt needed.

    And yes, be careful with the wax...I have a scar on my stomach from 2nd degree burns from an unfortunate mishap. Not pleasant.
Good luck with the corset.
Yes the wax has been discussed at length about needing right type. That's why we're going to buy some made for that specifically


likesmatureones 55M

10/5/2015 4:35 am

I've actually fisted a woman cold...by this I mean she had no real prep work/never tried that before. It really isn't so much a matter of technique as being able to relax and release. ( and oh god yes communicate with her partner)

I am use to the technique because I had women try to fist me ...so I have an understanding and appreciation of what she is going through..

Hot wax actually is very sexy and sensual at the same time.. my advice is to go out and buy a cheap plastic tarp from homedepot etc....that way your bed/table or wherever your doing this doesn't get wax all over it. Clean up is a snap too..just through the cheap tarp away.
Yes please don't use regular candles.. they put off too much heat..
The sensation is cool!.. it's like someone using a tiny whip on you.. you get that very brief sting..then it's gone. It really is more about the anticipation of the drops than it is the actual pain.
It's better to wax a woman ( no hair)/smoother skin and
I'd also suggest you try being the waxer sometime..lol...nothing funner than playing with a guy and waxing his cock.


VirgoGirl78 45F
1272 posts
10/5/2015 5:58 am

    Quoting likesmatureones:
    I've actually fisted a woman cold...by this I mean she had no real prep work/never tried that before. It really isn't so much a matter of technique as being able to relax and release. ( and oh god yes communicate with her partner)

    I am use to the technique because I had women try to fist me ...so I have an understanding and appreciation of what she is going through..

    Hot wax actually is very sexy and sensual at the same time.. my advice is to go out and buy a cheap plastic tarp from homedepot etc....that way your bed/table or wherever your doing this doesn't get wax all over it. Clean up is a snap too..just through the cheap tarp away.
    Yes please don't use regular candles.. they put off too much heat..
    The sensation is cool!.. it's like someone using a tiny whip on you.. you get that very brief sting..then it's gone. It really is more about the anticipation of the drops than it is the actual pain.
    It's better to wax a woman ( no hair)/smoother skin and
    I'd also suggest you try being the waxer sometime..lol...nothing funner than playing with a guy and waxing his cock.
I have yet to try fisting either but would be a whole lot of prep if i did!
As for the wax, my Dominant has said we have to get proper low heat ones and they are on my to buy list. Have some regular candles and we would have given it a go recently but drop test onto my hand proved they were not suitable. Tarp is good idea but probably just an old towel. Think i'll skip using wax on him though lol - he's a bit of a bear and think it would get a little too painful


likesmatureones 55M

10/6/2015 3:19 pm

Fisting really is easy and one doesn't need prep work like one would think. The secret is getting the person to relax You'd be surprised how easily things slide in when you can just chill. Oh and a lot of lube doesn't hurt😎


likesmatureones 55M

10/7/2015 6:26 pm

the size of one's hand isn't important.. it really is more mental than physical. I was at a play party and saw a sub woman take a whole fist "cold".... there was no warm up or stretching.. The sub girl just relaxed and opened up.

A distraction technique may also work for you.. I know when one is fisting a male, the easiest way to get him to open up his ass/to get him to relax/to take his mind off of one sensation is to engage another.

In this case the secret is to simply play with his cock...he drops his guard and it allows easier access to his ass. He can'r clench up and it allows you to proceed The same could be said of your vagina.. your afraid of the process so your clamping up/fighting his fist.

I'm the type of guy that would only proceed after I felt her vagina loosening/relaxing to my touch. That was my cue to increase my penetration.
He needs to get better at reading your body....perhaps you all could schedule a session when he does nothing but stimulates your body



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