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the great Unicorn hunt... Hi all, Thought I would give a talk about what I term the " great unicorn hunt". In these parts that refers to someone that has set their sights so narrow on a specific type of person ( or fetish) that it is nearly impossible to find that person. Then these same people will pop online and bitch that the local scene is so weak or that the local people here aren't A/B or C. The Usual suspects on this hunt are couples..( which may seem odd..you'd think it would be single dudes...) these couple troll for ideal perfection.. they want a 21 yr/single/submissive/ with a college degree/skinny/ ofcourse bisexual ( with an interested being sexual with both the hubby and the wife).. then they heap on other obstacles like she has to be into this or that scene wise. My usual response to unicorn hunters is "why?" Why would a single/young/professional/submissive etc etc etc person be interested in the two of them. Why would she want to share a man? Why would she want to share a woman? This person has alot of options and probably has every tom/dick and harry emailing her. So what makes you stand out from the rest? I'd give the same advice to a single sub dude looking for a Domme. They have ALOT of options...so don't be stupid and put alot of qualifiers on the Women. It's either a case where they really don't wish to find this person so they layer their ad with so many qualifications or they are really believe this unicorn actually exist. If so... then don't bad mouth the community when said person can't be found locally. In the case of submissives: I'm not suggesting one contacts someone as a blank slate/having no qualifications for the other person...you sometimes see that with submales. I feel like your both on equal footings while exchanging emails and getting to know one another. Your allowed to express an opinion and say what you like. But then don't bitch (when you agree to be Hers) and She suddenly whips out a 12 inch dildo and wants to breed Her boi. I feel like you all should have hashed this out previously...if you agreed to be Hers sight unseen, then man up and assume the position |
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10/7/2015 6:05 pm |
I'm on fetlife and i come across unicorn hunters every week..Is there a convention in town because these people should car pool.. So i thought I would write a lil piece on it..sorry if my grammar isn't perfect and my tenses don't always line up.. I write my blog at 5 in the moring
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