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likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
10/10/2015 7:28 am
extremes..and are they really extreme with the right person?


Hi all,

I think we all have the basic no no extremes that noone would do ( the usual /animals etc etc etc)

Yet I think we all have personal extremes that we claimed we would never get into. But what if the fantasy Master/Domme/Dominant came along and was skilled in the practice?.

So it made me wonder how far would I really go with someone and when would I pull back.

I was curious as to what boundaries would you cross (extremes wise) if you met the right person.

likesmatureones 55M

10/10/2015 8:03 am

I didn't want to clog up the post with my extremes. So I thought I would give my reply to it.

I'm a bi male so I have different opinions with it comes to playing with Doms vs. Dommes and probably would have different extremes with both.

One fantasy extreme ( that would blow my mind in real life ) with a Domme would be pet play. And just not "pet play" but actually being kept as a pet.
I've read personal ads where a woman wanted exactly that.( which honestly are few and far between but really got my wheels a turnin')
The male would have a job etc...but then would come home after work and would be stripped and assume the life as a pet. Not that I want to be a dog ( which really separates me from those that activity engage in pet play/don dogmasks/tails etc). But more so like a human pet.
I think it would be surreal to be kept naked and objectified like that.
I've also have invitations to "work" on a farm....where basically the male is objectified/put to work and basically is under the direction of the female submissive and the Male Dom ( owner of the farm).
I've always wondered how surreal that would have been in real life.

As you probably can tell I've always been a big fan of anne rice's sleeping beauty novels..


Now your probably thinking wow this guy is oooooouuuttt there..lol...but this is what this posting is all about...the extreme and how far would you be willing to go

With a Dom? well one of biggest fears of playing with a Dom is his desire to "share me" with others/orgies....I'm hardly homophobic, but really not interested in catching an std/HIV or anything like that.

So I'd say my extreme with a Dom would literally to be bred and shared with other Doms/made into a pleasure slave...( which I'd have no problems doing if there was no threat of catching something).

On the flip side of the coin? if I Dommed someone on the extreme...I really think I'd want my own female brat keep on a chain ( much along the lines of anne rice's sleeping beauty). I love a strong woman who acts out and would need to be spanked to keep her in line. I really bratty big bottomed bbw girl would really fill my bill

If I dommed a male...an extreme ( for me atleast)...I'd turn him into a complete sissy slut.. and teach him how to pleasure men


VirgoGirl78 45F
1272 posts
10/10/2015 10:09 am

I think for me, my hard limits are my extremes and there's not really much room for negotiation on them no matter who the person is. For me the biggest one on that list is bit like one of yours where I am not a fan of being shared out and this was one (of many) reason things went bad with my last Dom and I. He basically said that in the future it was something that woud happen whether I was ok with it or not.
At the opposite end, something I never thought I would want but now is something I am interested in is the idea of being collared. I always felt like it would be a humiliating thing to wear a collar but now I see the symbolism attached to it and that is incredibly enticing to me.


likesmatureones 55M

10/10/2015 6:29 pm

VirgoGirl: well the same thing happened to me. I've never been down withe local gay bdsm scene..it just seemed too extreme for my taste.
But I thought I would give a gay Dom a try.....we exchanged some emails and all seemed very cool until he mentioned that he liked to share his sub sexually with others
Now I'm not homophobic in the least..but I'm very health conscious.
You never know who is sleeping with who and it seemed like too big of a risk.

Sure in a pollyanna would that could be alot of fun..but we live in a world were there is no cure for Aids...your on meds for life..stop taking them and doctor recently found out all the symptoms come roaring back



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