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likesmatureones 55M
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4/26/2017 5:10 am
"Stealthing" .. this has to be the dumbest thing in the news


Okay before yesterday 99.99999 percent of people have never heard of this practice..

Until yesterday...all the news media were reporting on this "epidemic" of stealthing or a man removing a condom during sex to heighten his pleasure without telling his partner,

The articles called this practice "
( well alt is quite childish and won't let me use the "R" word in a blog.)
."R word adjacent"....like the practice was like trying to sell beach front property.

Now I get the notion that yeah there are a few douche canoes that might actually do something so dumb.

BUT as a man I am offended by this article, it reinforces the whole notion that every guy "could" be/is doing this...ergo it is a throw back to the old feminist notion that every guy is a potential " r word" ist. The article even alluded to the notion that this practice is " the r word" or atleast sexual assault.

The ironic thing is the author of the article is female and has no first hand knowledge of what wearing a condom feels like.
Sure I don't deny her having an opinion on the topic.
But at the same time to go on about a practice that probably is more myth than reality was sorta ignorant. It reminds me of that scene in the "40 yr old virgin" where stevel correll's character describes a woman's breast as being like a sandbag
There really is much to do about wearing a condom.. it isn't a big deal. .

First off why would any man rip off a condom in the middle of sex? NOONE wants an unplanned pregnancy...NO MAN wants to pay for 18+ years of support/college
NO man want to end up in jail for not paying his support..
To do so would be just plain ignorant.

Second women assume that wearing a condom is like wearing a hefty trash bag on a guy's dick...like somehow it magically reduces sensation and a guy can't feel a damn thing.
Hello people this isn't 1886.. your not tying a rabbit pelt to your junk ...there are plenty of condoms on the market that are thin or ribbed for both your pleasure etc.

It really makes no sense for a guy to "stealth" unless he is being a complete immature asshole. I actually call bullshit on the article. It is agenda driven

And yeah I get the notion that a person does feel vulnerable during sex....I'm not making lite of the notion that this sorta man is lieing to you/putting women/other men at a great risk. But that sorta immature/emotional unstable person could also kill you too...
I'm trying to make the point that this isn't something the average guy does in the bedroom...this is more of a "boogie man" article.

It would be like saying every woman lies about being on the pill....it really is a trust issue. If they wrote an article about women forcing fatherhood on men, men would be weary of women and would double wrap their dicks during sex.

Yet why would a woman lie about it/why would she do it and honestly how often does this happen.

and ironically the author never addressed a simple solution to this so called problem.. the female condom.. funny how noone mentioned the female condom in the article..

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likesmatureones 55M

4/26/2017 5:10 am


brandygirasol 54T
9346 posts
4/26/2017 8:29 am

So I Guess This Is Akin To A Similar PC Feminist Complaint Called Mansplaining! Don't You Know Its ONLY Men Who Are Ever Guilty Of Sexist Attitudes- Never The Women Because They Are ANGELS


likesmatureones 55M

4/26/2017 10:59 am

well the point of this blog wasn't to bash women. And honestly I think there should be some sort of action one can take against a man that does this ( whether criminally or through litigation ).
But I really wonder how the state would prove his guilt/that he removed the condom purely for pleasure reasons?
Don't know if the ladies are unaware of this ,BUT condoms aren't customed sized...so it is sorta like being goldy locks...some are too big..others are too small and you might find a company that makes a condom just the right size ..for your penis.
So if he was aggressive enough perhaps it would pull off..perhaps he bought the too small size and it came off etc.

Unless he was stupid enough to admit it.. I seriously doubt they could do much too him.

But long story short I think it is wrong to equate this to "the r word",..and I think it is ignorant to create this panic storm when 99 percent of men actually want that condom to stay the fuck put during sex



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