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sanita13 52F  
68 posts
12/19/2016 8:26 am

Both 1 and 2, I have met a long-term partner, and dated/played with someone I met on alt.


MyLoveandPet 55M/48F
10164 posts
12/19/2016 8:27 am

I've been on alt nearly 10 years, I have always blogged and have made friends with many other bloggers. I have met many people from alt although most of them have moved over to fet in recent years. Being married and sexually monogamous with my husband I have never used alt as a "dating" site it was a place for me to learn about the lifestyle and we have made some wonderful lifelong friends. These days I log in mostly out of habit.

ML.

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Weavin0311 55M
4 posts
12/19/2016 8:30 am

I have not met anyone from this site, I was hoping to meet someone that has the same interest. The sister site just has so much b.s. I was hoping this site would be good but does not seem to active


slaaf85_91 61M
447 posts
12/19/2016 9:38 am

I use this site to expose my sexual nature, not only with nude pictures of my body but also to share my deepest sexual feelings. Doing so I had several men contacting me via alt.com, asking to meet. I don't receive; I don't go to private addresses as that proved too often fake or in some cases unsafe.

The alt.com members that I met in person, I met most of them in a gay sauna, club or nude beach, only two preferred a chat in an ordinary pub first. Except two, all meetings resulted in sex, few members ask me every now and then to please their needs.

Being different from the majority of people as homosexual my pleasure is in being used by others...


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7016 posts
12/19/2016 12:11 pm

I have found two exciting, delightful play partners I match with well on Alt in the last two years: attractive, interesting, engaging, sexually adventurous and experienced, considerably younger, both married, both an awkward distance (several hours) away. I still see one, tho not often enough to suit my needs. I have been searching desultorily for another, nearer, companion. She is doing the same.

I doubt either of us will succeed in finding someone closer who meets our needs as well as we meet each others'. This site seems to teem with putatively submissive women who are afraid of meeting men who are conveniently close (I exclude the obvious, ubiquitous skank scammers).


brandygirasol 54T
9346 posts
12/19/2016 12:28 pm

Of Course MOST People On This Site Are Just FLIRTING And Such... Many Would Run For The Hills If They Might Actually Meet Someone And Get LAID ... However If You Have A Good Attitude And Wade Through All The BS You Will Find REAL Sex Partners That You Like And Hook Up With. I'm One Of the REAL Swingers On Here And I Show Several Testimonials To Me On My Profile Page. In Fact I've Gotten So Picky Who I Wanna Date That I Turn Down Most Men Hitting On Me ... So The Answer To Your Question Is Definately... YES YES YES


skorpius18 71M  
1342 posts
12/19/2016 12:44 pm

i have met people from here and other sites over the years.


Ixforqu 61M
461 posts
12/19/2016 12:57 pm

I have met several people from dating sites - even kinky ones - but I do not know, whether it counts, because the meetings were based primarily on the social aspect of a contact. In the strict sense no dates, although a few were accompanied by mutual temptation to fall in love and about two or three led towards to more intense relations.


sophis_id 60F
16373 posts
12/19/2016 1:23 pm

I've met many people still here on Alt and many that have gone on with their lives from all over the US and Australia. There ARE real people here. Just have to weed through the fruitcakes.

Oh, and I married my Sir Duck aHedonist not once but twice and Alt members I'd never met but corresponded with for years drove or flew to come see the nuptials. We continue to look for a 3rd...maybe one day....good luck. Recently had two fly down to NOLA just to visit for the weekend and yes, we did not have sex or play.....we were just and continue to be...the dearest of friends.



Inner Fucking Peace: watch?v=92i5m3tV5XY


sweetnikki949 37F
180 posts
12/19/2016 5:12 pm

I've met a few people from here and became fwbs with one of them. A few months later and we became a couple and we're still together!


philandlooking 36M
20 posts
12/19/2016 7:41 pm

I have met 3 people on this site. And I have to say, all 3 of them were great people. I tend to talk with people on here for at least a few months. Get to know each other. Figure out what they want and what they want from me. So far, minus the few that no-show for a scheduled meet, I've had great experiences here on alt.


applebuds 49T
1 post
12/19/2016 8:22 pm

It may not really be as active as i had thought it would . . .
and i have gone in and out of full/gold membership a few times already.

So, i am gonna vote the sexy pics (choice no. 4) for now.


missricci3 69T

12/19/2016 8:54 pm

thanks for the hang in there attitude. I hope to find a fem tgurl for a gurlfirend


undisciplined99 78M
22 posts
12/19/2016 9:24 pm

I've met live and played with a few people on here, and met folks from other kinky sites.


Coup2OwnU 64M/60F

12/19/2016 9:46 pm

We met here on Alt so definitely. The male of the couple before accepting me as his slave had met many cuckold couples and sub playmates there. I know this to be true because before he would accept me for training I had to speak with his last two slave/subs and they met him here. For men it's actually about not being s lazy dominant. Actually thoughtfully filling out a profile, having a variety of pictures. When he paged me on chat he actually referenced something I had written in my profile and not the normal free account lines of 'Suck my big dick slut' or 'What do you like'.
It makes a difference if you actually put some time into your efforts.


cleanerman 69M
14 posts
12/20/2016 3:02 am

Met a wonderful lady here 6 years ago, we've since met play partners and friends.


rjosh0001 54M
15 posts
12/22/2016 2:19 am

nice pic


PainLoveBeast 62M
43 posts
12/22/2016 4:28 pm

I get my fair share of propositions from fakes, which is to be expected, I suppose.
But I have met up with a few real play partners from this site. Not a long term one yet though.


Phyl054 70F

12/24/2016 9:39 am

I have met my Dom here on Alt and met many wonderful people as well (and a few assholes too....)


maybeyou3 52M

12/24/2016 5:34 pm

I have more chance meeting Santa Claus than meeting on this site


InderioMinx 54F  
19778 posts
12/26/2016 12:45 pm

Yes. I've met with a number of people from here. I found my favorite boy here, as well as a number of friends.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


learningtoDOM 46M/47F
1 post
12/28/2016 9:05 am

We have met folks but no play yet. Its hard to make a connection with others it woukd seem. Mostly it seems people are in a hurry and we want a little romance/courtship/social time.


DecibelRating 108M

12/28/2016 6:41 pm

I've met one or two partners from this site, but that was also the first time I was on here - several years ago. I'd probably meet more people if I wasn't so secretive about my profile information - hah.. but well, I guess I'll meet who I'm supposed to meet.

I can usually get a meet-up happening via chatting, but the chat client is such a piece of shit now that it probably makes me look inept at carrying a conversation. Thank goodness there are other sites out there offering similar options for interaction.


juicyslut2001 67F
171 posts
12/29/2016 8:57 pm

I cannot say I use Alt as a "dating site", because I do not think of casual BDSM play as "dating" - but yes, I have met with people from here.

Regards,
~ juicyslut ~

~juicyslut~


methinks 64M
28 posts
12/30/2016 3:31 am

Yes over ten years I've met and played a handful of times I'm picky and wait till the right play partner comes along


imalwayson 56F
1650 posts
12/30/2016 10:42 am

I have met quite a few people from this site over the past six year or so. Some amounted to nothing more than a pleasant dinner or coffee meet, some have become friends and a few have become much more.

Infinite... the ultimate expression of who I am ~ Gemini Syndrome


Bradfordkink 40M

12/31/2016 6:53 pm

Not met anyone yet, but trying to use the site now to get more involved in the community.


LadyGracefromWe 74F

1/1/2017 1:18 pm

I am now married to a sub I met alt after quite a bit of chatting,followed by meeting quite often. I've also been lucky to meet a good number of subs who still visit on a regular basis.
LadyGrace


pack3rs 55T
984 posts
1/3/2017 11:45 am

I used t be here a long time ago. Sadly the site is a mere shadow of what it used to be. Worryingly for an adult site the sister site has been hacked a few times so be careful of what you post.


fetish4hairy 61T

1/4/2017 9:14 pm

Most people on this site are married and just masturbating and will never meet up in general even for a cup of coffee in public. The site is full of pure flakes, frauds, liars and pure time wasters to be exact. Most only want at best cybersex.


canadianintx 54M
31 posts
1/5/2017 7:55 am

I have met one woman from this site and she was a awesome playmate and a few from one of the sister sites. Have had some great experiences with some great people, but have talked to a lot of posers who say they what this or that but when you do actually find someone who wants to play it usually turns out to be a wonderful day to remember


merubberchicken 54F
1 post
1/5/2017 12:29 pm

Met my sub (became really good friends too) of over 14 years on alt


Woodenpaddle 53M
196 posts
1/7/2017 12:14 pm

I have met quite a few members over the years. Some as friends, some just for a bit of fun and play and some for a longer relationship.

LIFE:
Life is what happens to you while you're busy planning other things


penumbra56 67M

1/8/2017 9:20 am

Over the years, I have met a number of genuine people from the site and had no negative experiences. However, I feel that the opportunities for meeting here are no longer what they were.


juicyslut2001 67F
171 posts
1/8/2017 11:43 pm

Yes I've met with other members from Alt, but I don't look on it or use it as a "dating site" because, as my profile says, casual is what we seek, not a LTR. Therefore I voted on the "other": button on your poll, as too many of the answer options dealt with "dating".

~juicyslut~


FunGuy47374 69M
85 posts
1/10/2017 11:37 am

I've met with several people on ALT that I ended up having sex with. My primary interest lies in young women, so it doesn't happen often, but it does happen.


MissElle2012 65F
29 posts
1/10/2017 5:07 pm

I've met men from ALT and from one of the sister sites.


boytoy672010 39M

1/12/2017 12:49 am

i have met some very nice people on here and yes i have met someone from alt and i am still friends with her now. we dont catch up as often as i would like but we communicate funnily enough more outside of alt than online. she is the most wonderful lady iv ever had the pleasure to meet. she knows everything about me and still likes me. that is the beauty of alt for me.
I would like to pose a question if i may: the kinks and fetishes we all have are considered taboo in the normal outside world and its considered dirty or digusting etc but my question is this is it we who are labelled or is it the stupid closed minded vanillarites who are ruled by their next door neighbors the jones,s who are the prudes. people here are open and honest about who they are and dont pass judgement because someone else does something that we are unfamiliar with and therefore we are all more accepting and tolerant than anyone out there. may your god or deity bless you all.
Oh i mean im just here to read stories man i dont look at the pictures of all the sexy people out there having fun giggitygiggity. im kidding of course.
thanks everyone for your time. cheers


anal69fun 69M
14 posts
1/12/2017 5:27 am

I had met a few online, one in person, remain friends with one of the online women for years. Seems like every one that I'm interested in lives on the other side of the world, or the damn IMs never work!


Hungrynsearching 71M

1/12/2017 9:20 am

To answer your question. NO. I thought I had, she understood my situation, and I thought she had agreed, but then things went south. I don't blame her, but I couldn't give the farm away even if I wanted to. Still it was a learning experience for me. thanks.


jackie7579 59T
7 posts
1/13/2017 10:25 am

i have met two or three select people from this site but now I am here for chats.


Brandalynna   

1/13/2017 3:56 pm

Yes many years ago. But this site use to be about long term not people being swingers. But I guess Alt wants there rates to go up but they own friend finder and few others as well. But People got there free will I am looking for long term. I am taking to someone but there on fet.


shibuingeisha 70M/59F
10 posts
1/13/2017 5:58 pm

We met on this site 10 years ago and are still living and loving together.


footer77 55M  
186 posts
1/19/2017 10:06 am

Met a few women from this site. Nothing long-term but fun and memorable encounters.


Phyl054 70F

1/23/2017 5:48 am

I met my current Dom here on Alt. He has since closed his profile, but orders me to keep mine going so that I can chat with and learn from other Doms.


raphiluvsitall 56M

1/23/2017 6:40 am

I met my girlfriend here at lt,i find if you are patient and honest you can and will find someone eventually,just takes time


footer77 55M  
186 posts
2/24/2017 1:33 pm

I have also experienced the robot responses. Then they ask for ALL of your personal information. Within short periods of time, the ALT folks deactivate the account.



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