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brandygirasol 54T
9346 posts
4/12/2017 7:14 am

Hello MsTrixy - No I'm Not A Safety Cop BUSYBODY ... However I'm Sometimes Surprised By Members Suddenly Emailing Me For Advice About Somebody They Are Considering Hooking Up With. I'm The Type Of Person Who Will Try To Assist People Who Ask Me For Help. YES I'm Sometimes Prone To Give Unsolicited Advice But Not Often. As For SAFETY I Would Like To Comment That Some Members Are Such Fraidy Cats I Don't SEE How They Will Ever Make A Connection. Silly Things Like... Only Texting And Not Actually Talking On The Telly To Make A Date AND Insistence On Meeting In A Public Place Before Agreeing To Hook Up In Private, Etc... Even Though I'm A Sissy Pansy Type Person I Realize I Must Be BOLD If I Want A Fuck Buddy ...!!!


1uncommondom 77M

4/12/2017 7:21 am

Consent is an illusion!
And the safety cop needs to be truthful an honest about the relationship of consent/kink and the law of the land.
FACT: BDSM is prosecuted as assault in the U.S., even when it is consenual.
FACT: No State or Appellate court has allowed CONSENT as a defense to assault in a case involving BDSM.

The answer to your question is that many don't know that consent will not protect them. That is the real risk awareness.


camperdude_69 63M
599 posts
4/12/2017 8:21 am

best to help when asked.


brandygirasol 54T
9346 posts
4/12/2017 12:14 pm

GEE I SEE That People Disagree With My Comments But I Have Always Operated As I Describe And Have Success Hooking Up With My Type of Guys. No Bad Things Have Happened To Me Nor Have I Had To Change My Phone Number, Etc... Some People Look At This The Wrong Way! ... In My Case Don't Approach ME Like I'm An Exotic Creature In A ZOO Scared To Get Too Close- Afraid To Talk On The Telly Or Even Have A First Name When Emailing Trying To Get A Date. The Proper Way Is To Approach Me Like I'm A Normal Person- With A Secret Kinky Sex Life- That You Wish To Make Friends With Because You Like My Profile And Believe We Are A MATCH As Potential Fuck Buddies! ... I'm Just A Simple Person Who Trys Not To Overcomplicate Things...


brandygirasol 54T
9346 posts
4/12/2017 1:56 pm

    Quoting  :

WOW Girlfriend That Is A Scarey Story- Glad You Escaped Unscathed WOW ... Well There Sure Are Some Activities That I Never Agree To Perform Like Breathplay Or Needles Or Fisting Among Other Things..


brandygirasol 54T
9346 posts
4/12/2017 3:17 pm

OMG Girl...!!! ... Your Experiances Are Far Wilder And More Extreme Than Anything I've Ever Been Involved With For Sure. Worst For Me Is My Body Aching And Stiff The Next Day And Perhaps My Bottom A Little Sore- Uncomfy To Sit Down- But Thats It. You Are A Such A Very Sweet SUB Whom I Admire Greatly- Hugging You NOW gEE Members Must Roll Their Eyes Because Its Always A Love Fest Between US ... However Not The Same As That Super Handsome DOM Of Yours, Girlfriend ...!!!!


brandygirasol 54T
9346 posts
4/12/2017 4:18 pm

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Thank You MsTrixy ... And I Think You Are Sooooo COOL


InderioMinx 54F  
19778 posts
4/12/2017 4:21 pm

Yep, I discuss and post about safety.

Sometimes new people do not think before they act or it seems an issue, with stories you hear, Sometimes reminders are good, for me and others. Some is based on experience, some based on based on common sense, after one steps back from the kid in the candy store rush. Though, I don't bother to blather on "...unprompted to tell people that their kink is not safe." Hell most things are not, though it never hurts to remind people to be smart about the activities they engage in to minimize the potential.

Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short


rosaenaluin 65F
10779 posts
4/13/2017 1:39 pm

I might be a safety cop?

I have heard soo much missery, in play scenes... in first contacts, in motel meets,
just because they thought it was HOT.... everybody is their own boss... so in the end it wont matter much... i think...
accidents waiting to happen, will happen.

because most people are soo horny, all their blood is in their genitals, so some warning is in place... some times, maybe....? i dont know...

after all, it is entirely up to those involved in that scene.... to think first.


ledapage 68M
270 posts
4/13/2017 3:28 pm

i know far too little to give advice. however listening and learning along the way has been very helpful and ultimately i make my own best informed choice with my knowledge base and gathering information from many others hopefully based on their truthful experience.


auburnroxy 41F

4/16/2017 2:50 am

I generally stay out of things that don't concern me - but I'd step in if I saw someone doing something foolish on-line, like giving out phone numbers, home addresses etc. Some people think they are speaking to one person but can end up broadcasting that info to the entire world.


boringbloke60 63M

6/22/2017 2:39 pm

Safety!
Hell I have worked in "Health & Safety" most of it is to reduce litigation from employees and to create additional charges for the customer additional charges = additional profit!

I agree "Both parties should research the activity and be aware of what risks are involved and then choose whether or not to engage in said activity".



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