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The important stuff very much gets discussed. There has been a bit of trial and error for sure. Ocean's last mistress was very old school and traditionally trained. Her style of play was very much more humiliation and punishment focussed. Through time I have discovered that there are many other ways to focus Ocean's mind if he gets distracted. The Punishment video for example was an interesting exercise. He had lost focus because of all the other demands on him in his life and when he loses focus we lose connection. When we lose connection he starts to spin around all over the place. So I gave him the option to earn a reprieve from his strokes because it focussed his mind. The punishment was going to be public again to make him think about it. The video was edited by him again as a way to focus on our connection which is fairly well hinted during the clip I think. Punishment doesn't equal an adult relationship. There are consequences though, even if not imposed by the other person. Interesting topic though x
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