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heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
8/6/2014 8:05 am

I agree with you. And funny when i have spoken to some men they are complaining as well about woman pushing them into sex the first date.

I have no idea what has happened to dating. We are sex obsessed culture. Use and discard..next.

And I have a feeling most people do not like that but they keep doing it.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


eroticallyincldn 70F
1635 posts
8/6/2014 8:54 am

it is the emotional attachment I have always sought...Anyone can fuck....

But for me ...it is a connection...If I am going to entrust my body ...and even my soul to someone ...he must be worthy of that..and only then will i give him all..
And that cannot be done quickly...

It takes patience ...perseverance....and an all consuming need for one...

Take your time boujie...the right one will appear ...and he/she will take their time ...to know you better than you know yourself.....


kb1971 58M

8/6/2014 3:37 pm

The societal norm seems to be changing faster than those of us can keep up with. I remember when a date was two people in a setting that gave them a chance to get to know one another, and leave behind their daily life, and enter into a world that took them away from the husle,and busle of every day life. I think the tourch that other generations have passed down regarding, respect, commitment, honesty, love, and honor, has begun to dim, and if we allow these changes in society to continue changing us, then dating will be nothing more than starring back at a image on a screen. I like the interaction one has in talking across the table, and gettting to know the other person.

I don't see how there is any other way of truly getting to know someone than looking at them in person, and watching their mannerism, and how they act in social settings, and do they show any emotion that leads you to believe they have a interest in you.

Dating..... a time, for people to win over the efection of the one they show a interest in, by being on their best behavior, and finding that connection, and help prevent those dreaded walk of shame moments that are sure to happen when you don't take time to get to know someone first. Boujie good topic

"Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do, and they will suprise you with their ingenuity."~ Gen. George Patton


tahimikdrifter 53M
8008 posts
8/7/2014 8:42 pm

Isn't dinner a prerequisite? Don't get me wrong, the sex is terrific (felt like getting that word in today), but I like the camaraderie...



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