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cuzisaid 53F  
14988 posts
8/30/2014 9:05 pm

I feel your pain. Sadly, quite a few of us do at the moment and I dont know why.

I like to fancy myself a practical person with a pretty good perspective and level or realistic expectation, but honestly, if it werent for the four stellar blog friends around here who've went out of their way to invite me out to meet them this year, Im pretty sure Id no longer believe even I was real anymore.

Im hoping its just the funky dog days of summer of mars fucking venus up the ass or something, cuz I have had it.

May September bring cooling winds of change to our way to hot collars. Lol or maybe I should wish fall bonfires on the vanities and split tongued lil devils

Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black
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~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


asianat2008 69M
3955 posts
8/30/2014 9:17 pm

The mental stress you are going is understandable and you may find many men telling You I Love You. It is only You who have to decide the choice in your favour and discuss with callers over phone and email. Finding a life partner is not that easy. My best wishes for You dear friend Tyza.

Self-respect is the corner-stone of virtues.


jenny14 75T  
90273 posts
8/31/2014 3:32 pm

Christy

A very warm hug!

I know how you feel and you know how much I wish you happiness....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


lastguymn 56M

9/1/2014 2:12 am

There's a lot of good advice already given; the only thing I can add to it is to diversify your search as much as you can. If you truly want a D/s-based relationship, try to find ways to get involved with your local kink community, make friends, and network...sites like ALT can be a good way to discover someone, but people on-line tend to not represent themselves accurately...either intentionally or because they simply are poor communicators. To find a diamond in the rough, your chances are better if you're looking at someone face-to-face rather than face-to-screen.

Also remember that this search is a marathon not a sprint...try to be patient and keep a positive attitude (I know, that's really hard to do). For every great relationship there was one last, lonely day before the two people's paths crossed Who knows? Maybe today is your last lonely day...and even if it's not, that day could arrive at any time.


~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


WoodEyeLuv 61M  
102 posts
9/1/2014 9:26 am

What you seek is certainly out there for you to find, or for it to find you. Unfortunately it seems you often need to sift through a bit of garbage, or in some cases heaps of it. When you find it, however, the difficulties of the journey will be forgotten and the road ahead sweet smelling. I wish you good a short journey.



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