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Love_Master_1000 75M
232 posts
10/16/2014 11:57 am

I prefer real time. There's nothing better then flesh on flesh. Being able to feel the warmth and silkiness of the female body. To be able to caress, hold and kiss a lovely lady. TPE online is like reading a book, satisfying while reading, but nothing that lingers afterwards, cuddling, seeing the control that a trusting master has over someone, and the scent that comes from a loved woman.

LM


Love_Master_1000 75M
232 posts
10/16/2014 2:02 pm

Thank you Christy. My day is going well, enjoying the cooler weather over the past several days. Have a lovely and safe weekend.


lastguymn 56M

10/16/2014 5:52 pm

Not long ago I heard someone that say that if you want to make almost any statement seem less meaningful, important, or valuable, all you need to do is add the words "on the internet" to the end of it.

And it's kind of true. If someone says, "I'm studying astrophysics," it sounds pretty damn impressive, but saying "I'm studying astrophysics on the internet"...still sort of impressive...but only sort of.

And of course, the same can be said for love and relationships. If someone told you that they have been together with the love of their life for five years...but then you learn that the entire relationship was completely on-line...would you see it in the same light as if they were physically together for five years? I'm not saying that on-line can't be exciting and romantic, but the completely on-line relationship has a lot of pieces missing from it...pieces that aren't healthy to go without for too long.

The internet is a great way (well, not always great) to make contact and take the first steps in getting to know someone, but these are just first steps, and if you truly want to get somewhere real, the next steps need to be taken together...without miles of ethernet cable in between. That's my 2 cents.


~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


cuzisaid 53F  
14988 posts
10/16/2014 6:32 pm

I could not do it as an ONLY form of or INSTEAD OF a romantic or sexual type relationship.

Every last person you are talking to in this and every post, IM and email IS doing it online, but.........its a meeting place only, to me.

A bad one unfortunately cuz damned dont those preconceived notions and expectations of WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR get in the way of finding out who a person actually is.
Time and expectations are very different. Instincts are almost non existent and it is impossible to use ANY known human mannerisms with each other.

The written word is the single worst form of communication and meant only to be used to convey information not develop feelings or knowledge of a person on an intimate level.

Word masturbation takes way one of my hands so...lol NO online ONLY for me. As a supplement to physical and verbal communication its ok if distance is an issue. But.........I am one of the 5-7% who always said that I wanted real time. Most on the net do not and never will.

Why leave their secret clubhouse where anything and everything is possible?

Im thinking of trying smoke signals next. Cant be any worse.

Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black
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~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


WoodEyeLuv 61M  
102 posts
10/16/2014 8:07 pm

Based on how others have responded they seem to miss the point that you are not attempting to replace real time with on-line, you are attempting to replace having nothing right now with something. I cannot really see any real harm in that. Having some percentage of what you wish is better than having zero percentage. It could indeed lead to real time, although the likelihood is not very high. So what? You give yourself a better chance at getting what you wish. You are a gift for someone. Make yourself available for that someone to unwrap you.


WoodEyeLuv 61M  
102 posts
10/17/2014 4:17 am

I have experienced a bit of all possibilities; real time only, on-line combined with real time, and on-line only. In my opinion a deep D/s relationship is more based on the mental connection than the physical. Both combined is ideal, however, on-line provides at least the mental part that combined with technology of text messaging, talking by phone, and webcams can be very stimulating to say the least. Would I pass up the possibility of watching a subbie bring herself to orgasm when playing together on-line because at that moment we cannot be physically together? Oh I think not!


tahimikdrifter 53M
8008 posts
10/17/2014 4:49 pm

Online, skype, or cam feels too much like exhibitionism and voyeurism. Keep it real...someone will come along.


jerry1944 77M  
22 posts
10/18/2014 4:54 am

Sure sounds dumm to me but i do see some on here that do As a sub i cant see where on line would help



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