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prpackaged 80M  
740 posts
1/26/2015 6:33 am

Without knowing the what or the why, it can only be followed by your better sense. If it is not illegal and you were willing to do it, then look it over and decide what you found fascinating about it that compelled you to do it. One of the most fascinating things about us humans is the fact that we do enjoy the exploration even if we decide to not repeat the process after the experience.

The blackest lie is a partial truth that leads you to the wrong conclusion.


msfunfor 63M
10580 posts
1/26/2015 7:38 am

is that about the "unsuspecting" wife you encountered ?

really hard to say,,,,,,mostly we should trust our instinct and
if that instinct tells you : NO
then one should follow,,,probably ..lol

be good
M


badboy45377 70M

1/26/2015 8:12 am

What they said...LOL

I guess it depends which outweighs the other, the turnon vs the dislike.

And the 3rd factor, what else do you have on your dance card?...grin. If you're busy with other kink/BDSM or vanilla life, it's easier to just move on.

Badboy


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
1/26/2015 8:38 am

When we take part in an act that is not illegal, but is disgusting, repulsive, and immoral to us. Usually, one of two things happen: Either we wake up and come to our senses. Abstain from the act at all cost. No matter how enticing they tempt our hunger, lust, and perhaps compulsion for it. Or, we defiantly go against what we already know is wrong, and give in to the wild thrill and craving of it.
When we choose the latter, often catastrophic results follow, even when these devastating results are only to our own soul.
Mind you, I use the words, "even" and "only", loosely!

The answer you seek is one of your poll choices: "Use my better sense and put it behind me."
That's my vote, that's my opinion.

Best Wishes

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


MenardGCrebs 49M
1102 posts
1/26/2015 9:46 am

They say that it's only kinky the first time. I say put that to the test, particularly if it's causing an itch.

Eagles may soar, but weasels don't get sucked into jet engines.


skorpius18 71M  
1342 posts
1/26/2015 12:24 pm

Do it again if it doesn't hurt you.


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
1/26/2015 10:49 pm

Please hold yourself to the high ground. Your comments reveal you already know what you want the answer to be. The image you paint of yourself is always the most important portrait. I'd like to write more. If you'll send me an email with more detail, perhaps we can resolve this in a way that you discover a "moral" way to experience the same thrill.


xntrick 59M
2927 posts
1/28/2015 12:33 am

Talk about teasing your audience. I know all too well that something that is taboo has a hold on certain people, myself being one of them. Sounds to me you also were humiliated by the whole thing and you're just craving more of that. I'd say go for it, have some incredible sex. The only problem I see is it may not affect you the same way the 2nd time which might disappoint you but it just may push a completely different set of buttons.


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
1/28/2015 12:00 pm

    Quoting  :

Heck no!! If we include the ones who won't own-up and admit it, I bet 99.9 percent of us know through experience exactly what you are wrestling with. Not in the particulars, just the compulsion of wanting to do something that is beyond our normal boundaries.
The problem seems more in the inappropriateness than the act itself.

That said, the inappropriateness alone could turn out to be your Achilles Heel!

I have been under the influence of compulsion, it has at times driven me to things I would never do in my normal state of mind.

The idea and draw of doing something “bad” or, “wrong” is enticing! Almost impossible to control once bitten. The worst part is, the more we partake of the poison, the more poison we require to feel the buzz.

Below, you mention wanting to scratch the itch. I will comment there next. Although, I have already answered it here.

Best Wishes

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
1/28/2015 12:07 pm

    Quoting  :

Well, here's Mr. I have an opinion, again, lol.
I have said enough, and to go further might lean itself into judgement. I have no right to judge anyone, for anything, anywhere, place or time!

I simply wish to add . . .Ya know, when you scratch an itch, the poison, put there by the "bug", spreads and makes the itch all the more impossible to ignore.

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”



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