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benoite 104F
6238 posts
1/15/2015 11:26 am

I believe there is only one chance to move on.
I Posted it on Doc's blog some time ago
and I'm trying to do it myself since my precious, dearly loved companion on four legs left me.

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Shattered dreams need time.
I think we have to allow ouselves to mourn though our environement expects us to function.
B
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Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde


jenny14 75T  
90057 posts
1/15/2015 1:08 pm

ws

Time helps but just dreaming of a bright future ....as well as keeping busy...


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


eremcu 61M
795 posts
1/15/2015 1:23 pm

Try to keep busy as best as you can. I hope the time it takes you to heal moves by quickly.


DancingDom 74M
22444 posts
1/15/2015 4:44 pm

Talking to my close freinds and listening to good upbeat music. Thats what does it for me.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


SylviaSoulier 58F
8209 posts
1/16/2015 12:08 am



Yin yoga.

You can cry and no one judges you be sued everyone else is crying too xx


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
1/16/2015 5:38 am

Yes, Roni, I agree that's a damned fucking good question.
No question in our minds.

what is your one saving grace?

After fighting it, I 'allowed' mySelf - gave mySelf permission to lean on, accept solace and comfort from ..................... my friends...

...not always an easy thing for me (us?) why?

Because we have strong belief and experience in our own inner strength and resilience (we don't like feeling OR appearing 'weak' and outta control of our emotionally self-sufficient & Pragmatically Optimistic Selves) is why. We're tested tough, right?

And that can be self sabotaging where healing comes in imo baby.


Suppose I said that
You -
can enjoy your solitude and your pain; seems you deserve to. While it may seem now that you'll never be happy again, it's Un_true.
And ~ we're around, yeah?

We'll run with ya as long as you need.
Take your time. Use us.

YTB
BD~
P

xoxoxos

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Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
1/16/2015 5:40 am

    Quoting ralph696969:
    first, no one knows all the ins and outs but that shouldn't keep you from listening to advice, don't make that an excuse

    you don't quit missing him but you do move on. Each time you think of him you need to attempt to attach some pain to the good thoughts, showing you YOUR PROGRESS.

    This is easy but really emotional but its how I suggest. Force forward, fill your time with other things, do for you

    come to florida

    lots of options kid

    that's all life is, options on what step you take next

    you have lots of love here
LOTS...

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
1/16/2015 6:36 am

I am wondering if you have moved on by allowing one door to shut which will allow new/newer ones to open I always think enjoy the pain while you can because eventually you will smile at happiness again.

I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.



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