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tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
6/9/2015 1:45 pm

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Oh that didn't sound like an ideal setting. It sounded like he had internal torment going and hadn't come to terms with what he was. Therefore, it must have been hard for you too and to be comfortable in being his partner.

I used to think that I would never want to be publicly a sub but I am so very proud of my submission to my Dom. It is all so very beautiful for us. I really wouldn't mind if people knew. I also always think that anyone would see why I would submit to him (as in who wouldn't want to). This is part of our bubble, this being in awe of each other and what we represent to each other. As you know, sadly, in our case we aren't able to be public about our roles and the amazing bond we share.

If my children were to have a similar bond I have with my Dom, I would have no issue with it as it has been such a source of beauty and amazing energy. But like every parent of they were to choose the BDSM route I would hope their journey would be pleasant and that they would avoid any real darkness.


jenny14 75T  
90057 posts
6/9/2015 3:24 pm

Mary

We cannot change what we are!

Therefore, if I had children, I would counsel them about safe, sane and consensual and then tell them to enjoy.....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


jenny14 75T  
90057 posts
6/9/2015 4:30 pm

mary


"Jen he is quite young so I am hinting about being open and him talking to me if things trouble him. I don't want to mention SSC when he's vanilla anyway. "



I agree - it is best to be open but I think SSC also applies in the vanilla world but just in different aspects eg condoms...


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
6/10/2015 1:20 am

By the way, for some reason I was thinking about your ex. He clearly had a serious case of dom guilt. What a shame.


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
6/14/2015 8:29 am

Mary, although prediction can be a tricky thing, I think I'd be ok with my daughter's choices to be in TTWD, irrespective of role or orientation.

I've come to trust their 'vanilla' RACK judgment, is all.

Fascinating question, interesting answers.

Regards TO Your Other
xo

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace



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