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lastguymn 56M

10/6/2015 8:15 pm

I can't speak for anyone else, but I'd prefer any first conversation to be just that...a conversation...just two people getting to know each other and being real. I suppose there are some who demand adherence to some strict protocol regarding how to speak and what topics are to be addressed, and if that's someone's cup of tea, I say have at it. But for me, I'd rather develop the more formal aspects of a D/s relationship after I've gotten to know the person and prefer to keep things light, fun, and unscripted at the start.

~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

"There are many spokes on the wheel of life. First, we're here to explore new possibilities." -- Ray Charles


TachMed 64M
26 posts
10/8/2015 5:25 am

To get to know someone you must communicate. To start out just getting to know someone new forget all the questions back and forth and just talk about whatever comes up.
Those who jump straight into what you can do for them are not interested in getting to know the person inside. To build a relationship one must talk and spend the time to know likes, dislikes, and thoughts on all levels. Wants and desires will come in time. But if those are first out of the gate, do you really know the man or woman as a person or just a peace of meat?
It takes effort but anything worth while does. If one makes the effort to know the real you then they are interested in more than only quick and easy.


sirstephen_469 72M  

1/10/2016 9:41 pm

Many so-called Masters/Doms are so self-centered, they can't see beyond the tip of their (fill in the blank).

A girl/woman is a complex and sometimes simple person. A real sub/slave girl/woman has a mind and it must be carefully protected and nurtured. A sub/slave without a mind is only a waste of a person.

Any so-called Master/Dom that does not see this and want this, is not worth your time or effort.

To find the real person behind the mask (both parties) takes real conversation, real time to investigate the person. It is not protocol, it is not strict demands to follow a conversation. As stated above, a first meeting should be allowed to flow naturally, and if the fit is wrong, that will become very apparent.



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