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IrishBear111 71M
377 posts
4/24/2014 7:20 am

I voted - Go Back. When I was younger I was a total nerd with no people skills. I'd love to have a chance to re-live a 10 year period of my life with some people skills built into my persona.


benoite 104F
6238 posts
4/24/2014 10:33 am

I'm quite content with the life I've had so far.
Nevertheless I voted *go back* to tell the little me not to waste so much time on the wrong people, who were not worth the effort I made to keep friendships or relationships going.
B


Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde


Doc_Sonar 66M
24588 posts
4/24/2014 7:48 pm

I ~ simply can't say/push a button right now .

I read everyone 's thoughts and 'went there with them'...
Still...

Go back (the consensus, with me tilting heavily towards 2ndTIme's feeling about my obstinate, younger ass),
go forward (scary).
Be Mindfully present (b & kinky...)

The possibilities are mentally mugging the hell outta' me...

I have to say Other.
Sur-damn-prise.
+++

I CAN say that if I were to go back, It'd not t give advice, I'd have to 'BE/Replace' my earlier self, not just occupy time-space WITH yonder me...and act with my knowledge of my own future.

THAT, I've imagined countless times.

It would change my current reality, I'd be 'different' from who I now am...and that'd be ok. Hell If I wasn't satisfied, I'd go back.
Endlessly.


I wouldn't get be bored at the VERY least - and at best, fate wouldn't take issue at being nudged, and ...as long as I'm imagining, there'd be no butterfly effect negative consequences.

If that weren't possible, the fuck it; let it all be.

Stimulating, this - I eat this stuff up.

YPLUD
BD~
P
xoxos

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace


Mistress_Thought 50F
9809 posts
4/24/2014 8:14 pm

I love where my life is. Even though some of those times were super yuck at the time, they made me...me. I am confident in the future that I will be happy and awesome.


Ixforqu 61M
461 posts
4/30/2014 2:09 pm

I vote for "life happening as it is."
Life is lived forward and understood from the fact. If I go in the future, I can not hit me, for in that I go, is changing - as soon as I'm back - my choice of the ways that I will only go yet. If I go into the past, my former self would be terribly frightened or went crazy. Confrontation of two identities, both of which I have, yield a paradox. And if I change my past through the encounter, so I delete on my ego in the present - I could never go back to the future.


SylviaSoulier 58F
8209 posts
5/8/2014 8:07 pm

Gorgeous drawing.

Since I am a yogi now I would choose to stay in the present.

"This moment is the only reality. the past and the future are abstractions. When we penetrate the present it becomes a doorway to eternity. Here it is - right now. Start thinking about it and you missed it."



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