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I see. I imagine that happens a lot more than I'd think, so... What does that mean for you? What parts of bdsm do feel is disenchanting? What do you think you will do to reconcile yourself to your (new?) feeling, to discover a gratifying alternative? BD~ P xos Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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I met a lad 10 years younger than me today. We talked about spanking- he has never met a woman who liked to be spanked. Bound and fucked, yes, but never has a woman let him truly have his way- all placed limits with no anal or no blow jobs or whatever- I sat there surprised. I realize that subs call the shots, but seriously, as a Dom, you have the right to push limits, and we talked about this. I asked him what he would do if he spanked me until I cried- he said he would probably stop and figure out what was happening. What if I told you it was a good happening. He said, he never experienced that. Literally every woman he had met wanted to be a sub but told him what to do. I see a confidence building endeavor in my future.
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p_h Yes, bullshit is wearing I love the new meaning if BDSM A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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I suppose BDSM means different things do different people. Perhaps it's navigating through that jungle and coming across someone who might share the same ethos as yourself. Even in a loving relationship at times we might want different things. Happy exploring!
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Hmmm, a very interesting take on it. Finding that person who can understand might not be easy, but I'm going to keep trying.
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Different strokes for different folks. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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BS does not satisfy me either. Many years ago, I frequented the public dungeons. Some were lots of folks with puffed up egos showing off.I pretty much avoid that. I don't pursue anyone too much now days. Distance, different stages of life (careers, children) make it harder to find partners when your over 50. This is a small town, so not much is going on. Small town mentality so I have to keep it all quiet. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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"I was told that a submissive over the age of 35 is worthless... I am well over that expiration date..." Well, I don't agree with that concept. That is promulgated by guys who only want young and supposedly not well versed in all of this, i.e. gullible to the BS the spew. I have a feeling you are a very worthy woman. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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