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cuzisaid 53F  
14988 posts
1/21/2015 6:37 pm

Less than 8% of folks want to meet anyone for anything face to face. Only about 3% actually will try to do so. Its a sad reality.

I'm not into the chic thing, but Ive met quite a few folks from here over the years. Most were from all over the US, but a few from different countries as well.

Going into meeting someone as a friend first and foremost regardless of gender, desired place or role seems to be the way to go for me and most of those who do want to meet in person.

There are 5 million reasons I can think of to fear sex, a sub or a dom, but I cant think of even one reason Id fear meeting a friend.

Chin up! It does happen. Not often, no, but people do meet and I havent regretted one meet yet. Even the ones that made it to my horror story / never talk about it list.

Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black
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~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


badboy45377 70M

1/21/2015 6:44 pm

I've met a sub from here and we had some playdates and a contract. Met iother subs on CL but the ads were pretty obscure.


sophis_id 60F
16373 posts
1/21/2015 6:48 pm

Um, I married someone from here aka ahedonist and I can attest to the fact that I can name about five other couples that have met and married from this website. It's all about what you put into it and taking everything with a grain of salt. Good luck!



Inner Fucking Peace: watch?v=92i5m3tV5XY


twosharp2 79M
767 posts
1/21/2015 8:43 pm

I met my soul mate here, the best relationship of my life.


spike149 34M
54 posts
1/21/2015 9:06 pm

Couldn't help but vote for the last one. Also good work on how you phrased the answers.


Aislin 39F  
8605 posts
1/22/2015 4:56 am

I travelled from Boston to Oslo, Norway meeting a person twice from this site.

I am aroused by my own darkness and there is no cure.


Dom4masosub 55M
6 posts
1/22/2015 5:27 pm

I have met and played with multiple subs from this site.


skorpius18 71M  
1342 posts
1/22/2015 6:43 pm

i have met and played with a number of Women from here over the years, and i'm still alive to tell the tale.


steelwand 56M  
171 posts
1/23/2015 3:55 pm

I would definitely love to meet someone to play with on this site...........it is hard to find someone who likes what you like and who lives somewhat in driving distance. I also would like to know that the meeting and the subsequent playing would be safe and discreet. There is a lot of things to think through in order to actually meet someone in real time. I just hope to meet someone soon because I really want to experiment more with this lifestyle!


Blixee 66T
19 posts
1/24/2015 10:00 am

He made a lot of talk about being strict but then in person all he wanted was, well, you know.


doingitall4yu 66M
321 posts
1/26/2015 10:08 pm

I have met a couple of women from this site, I have nothing but respect for them! There are no guarantees you will have a long term relationship with anyone whether or not you meet them through alt, but at least you will know they have a kink that matches yours.

Serve me!! It is what you crave! jdxafn at hot....


mystycircle 54F
1 post
1/28/2015 3:39 pm

I met my Sir on here!! We live together, i couldn't be any more Blessed ilyS


rtr877 64M

1/31/2015 5:06 am

I have met and played with 4 Doms from this site and have had some really good times


open2funoxox 54M

3/9/2015 2:31 pm

I have only met one woman from here,but it was great.I would like to meet more people for more fun.


Fessler 60M
65 posts
3/20/2015 12:39 pm

I have met several women (subs) from this site; all were perfectly pleasant. The chemistry was only right with one; she was a fantastic partner to me for a few years, until her career and family took her elsewhere. Perhaps I'm not over her, but I'm always open to meeting people I've established some rapport with (by which I mean more than a couple of e-mails). Maybe I'm weird, but if all they want to talk about is sex, I won't bother meeting them.


PainLoveBeast 62M
43 posts
4/11/2015 4:07 pm

I've had one conversation in a bar with a girl, a session with a Dom-couple and another one with a Mistress, through this site.

Pleasurable experiences.
I still remain unowned though. It's quite a commitment, of course.



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