Blog : Carrots and Sticks

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6/29/2015 3:11 pm

Carrots and Sticks

There are few things that you can judge another human being on without being unjust, unfair, hypocritical or slanderous.

Judging someone on their sexuality is unjust and unfair - Heterosexual, Homosexual, Bisexual, Pansexual or Asexual has no impact whatsoever on another persons soul, if anything they will be more accepting, understanding and inclusive of 'alternative' choices because they've been demeaned, degraded and subjugated by a heteronormative society.

Judging someone on how they look is hypocritical - You may not think those blue trousers go with that pink shirt or that crop top and those dungarees work together, you may think that tattoo is nasty, those piercings ugly, those shoes too high, that skirt too short and you may think that he has no right wearing that dress but you better make sure you don't violate any of these anachronistic specifications yourself or you're nothing more than a parrot with tourettes.

Judging someone on their size is unfair - Fat, Thin, Short, Tall, Lean, Muscled or Underweight have nothing to do with how a person conducts themselves and everything to do with how others have treated them. They starve themselves, they binge way, they bulk up, they wear heels or refuse to all because someone along the line has made a judgement based on subjective aesthetic compliance.

Judging someone on how they treat someone else without knowing the context is slanderous - A dialogue can have ore than two people taking part but if not one person in that dialogue is you, you have no right to comment because you're seeing one piece of the puzzle, not the entire picture.

You can only judge someone by their word.

If someone says that they are going to do something, then you have the right to question, to judge and to form an opinion of them if they then don't keep their word.

Promises made, deals bartered and reassurances given are what shows you how honourable that person is - Following though breathes a sigh of relief, you know that you're safe with someone who keeps their word.

If it becomes the carrot and the stick "Well how about this - Once you can do X, then you'll get Y"- Walk away.

These people use words like a spider uses its web - Manipulation, entrapment and a constant evolution, making it bigger,moving the carrot with no intention of keeping a single syllable.


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