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Just4BDSM 68M

7/25/2016 9:36 am

I am one of those talkative types, very A personality, and have been told I look in charge (of what I'm not sure), but with that said when I am talking to a female I find attractive and think she may be sub I try to find a way to break into her personal space. Now I know some will say they don't like that, but this is after engaging in some chat, maybe find a necklace and say "May I have a closer look?" or if sitting in a bar it could be as easy as touching her arm in conversation, as to make a point - her actions after that will be a big indicator for me (always have been). If she pulls back or right after the necklace moves back; more work is needed or she is not interested, but if she stays within each others space there is a very positive indication of interest.

Just me 4 BDSM


maletramp 64M
2092 posts
7/25/2016 1:11 pm

Like you MsJax, I spend\t most of my life trying to fit in the vanilla world and see if you can "turn them" to the "dark side"; Never really works, and too often ends in recrimination.. Far easier for the female than the male to initiate such.. But like you said, the internet is a grand help..


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
7/25/2016 3:49 pm

I, like Just4BDSM, am a very social person. The workplace is always a no-no for me when it comes to approaching anyone. If I'm out and about I can usually pick out that that Dominant woman. I make it a point to just compliment her.....her hair, earrings some little thing. The eyes give me the clue as she thanks me for the compliment.


McGripper 54M

7/25/2016 5:03 pm

Cautious would be the best way to do the approaching thing, come in from the sun and an elevated position maybe to increase your chances.


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TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
7/25/2016 11:45 pm

This little tale is not about BDSM but it does involve getting slaps! I knew a young guy years ago, (So long ago, the word AIDS had not even been coined). He was an actor and reckoned he didn't have time for all that dating malarky. He calculated that if he just went up to a girl and asked her straight out if she'd like to come home with him and fuck, nine out of ten would give him a slap.

However, one out of ten would say "yes". Therefore, on average, a random bunk-up would cost him nine slaps but every tenth bunk-up would be slap free!


DancingDom 74M
22474 posts
7/26/2016 4:32 pm

I just say hello and something about what they are wearing, where we are and whatever activities are going on. If they respond.great...if not..............well nothing ventured, nothing gained. If someone approaches me.......I will say hello yadda yadda......and in either case, find out if they have a brain.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"



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