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jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
9/2/2014 3:17 pm

Tam

You may be young but you are soooo wise!

The vignettes you and your Ffamily share are both beautiful and instructive

Being somewhat older, I have had many relationships - some quite long lasting!

I am deeply in the closet as I have often said and this has raised difficulties for me , but it is my choice

Some of my cyber-friends have been / are so wonderful and supporting

(Off topic - I love your new pic - that dress is both beautiful and feminine )


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
9/2/2014 7:23 pm

Complacency aka familiarity is an issue. We can get into a routine that is not excited for one or both parties. In my experience, the submissive get to the pont of a routine , it become habit. It also is a double edge sword of no longer being exiting in many cases. It is what the submissive strive for, to please that dominate in a manner they desire. For many, in short order it is no longer exciting.It does not have an edge. I find this to be more and more true for the younger folks who are being conditioned in other aspect of life to expect change, freshness, even if it is minimal. This is also the case for the so called vanilla folks.

Young folks, particular seems to expect drama to ensue at some point. Look at all the "reality" tiv shows and the Jerry Springer shows that folks watch. The entertainment shows, Dancing with the Stars, the Voice etc all are generating conflict and thus this seems to equal excitement in peoples live. I see it so much on sites like this. in particular in chat rooms. The dom/submissive of the month and all the BS associated with the pursuit, capture and subsequent dissolution's. Hardy anyone has patience. The fantasy is short lived but it is the reality.

So many want others to be responsible for their boredom.

In real life, so many are seeking or accepting poly situations. For many it is an accommodation instead of a preference. many are so swilling to compromise their standards for the sake of a relationship, no matter how fleeting it may be.

Your situation as dynamic as it is, seems to work and it is rare.Very rare now days.

I run into way too many folks who are impatient. I was just thinking a few days ago, perhaps it is time i retire from all of this. I am just so tired of drama, impatience and folks trying to live a fantasy that is not achievable. the on line erotica and role playing has become more prevalent than reality.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Doc_Sonar 66M
24589 posts
10/7/2014 8:13 pm


Love the serenity...


Glad to see you're posting more frequently dear...

If I'm lucky, I'll accept the challenge and post it
.
Regards To Your Others, Tam,
YTB
BD~
P
xx

Doc_Sonar

I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar


Breathe Deeply~
Peace



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