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Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
7/15/2014 10:29 pm

Some people are mentally, physically, and emotionally more mature at a very young age than others at an older age. Age becomes relevant when a person is lacking maturity in any of the afore mentioned areas. In other words, if an 18 year old is not emotionally sound, physically mature, and mentally stable, then they are vulnerable to being led into things that could harm and damage them in the long run.

It would then be irresponsible and almost criminal for an older person to take advantage -even when the immature person is willing and eager, of that person. This, I believe is particularly true as it pertains to an older man, and a very young woman. It’s not the numbers, not the age difference only or how many decades separate them that matters. The question is, is the playing field level?

When I was thirty, I dated an 18 year old girl. I took a lot of heat for it, but she was worth it, and I wouldn’t change it even if I could. Neither do I regret anything about it. She was very mature and mentally stable as any thirty year old woman I ever knew.

So you see sir, you must answer your own questions. Is the eighteen year old stable? Is she mature? Is she capable of handling all the experience you bring to the table? Is she emotionally fit enough to deal and cope now and later with the things she is learning from you and experiencing with you?

If you can honestly answer yes to those questions, then 10, 20, 30 years are only numbers and therefore not relevant.

As far as I’m concerned, morii_slave answered the gender role question well enough. It’s not about gender, it’s about nature.

Best Wishes to you!


“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


twosharp2 79M
767 posts
7/16/2014 12:19 pm

Several years ago, I dated a woman 30 years younger; it was the best relationship of my life. Currently, I am corresponding with a 26 year-old woman; we have many of the same fetishes. We hope to meet soon.

In my opinion, compatibility is much more important than numbers.


skorpius18 71M  
1342 posts
7/16/2014 8:20 pm

i picked age doesn't matter only because i really hope so. But age is really more than just a number.



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