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eliza1234 49F
1482 posts
7/28/2015 12:12 am
Who says?


There have been countless times when lovers of mine have uttered the phrase 'I shouldn't like this but I do' or words to that effect.

Be it having their bottom caned, being rimmed, having their cock and balls smacked, flogging someone or being pegged, all have been having a perfectly wonderful time but have felt the need to comment that they shouldn't have been.

I wonder who has sat them down and told them this.

I don't think I've ever felt that I shouldn't like something that I enjoy. Perhaps there's a little rebellious part of me that finds pleasure in doing things that polite society would frown upon.

Do you ever feel that you shouldn't be liking something? What drives that feeling?

iandvate 58M  
143 posts
7/28/2015 12:24 am

I get extra turned on with the thought of doing something my straight laced friends would never consider doing.


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
7/28/2015 12:27 am

    Quoting iandvate:
    I get extra turned on with the thought of doing something my straight laced friends would never consider doing.
Great fun isn't it!


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
7/28/2015 1:24 am

    Quoting Chaste_in_Oz:
    First of all I'd consider that a little rude of them. If something has really sent them over the edge the first words after 'Wow!' should be 'Thank You!'

    I'll tell you, I'd love to find a kinky partner who did have a strong interest to explore all aspects of the lifestyle. The sort of woman you could turn onto things as well without her calling the divorce attorney and asking if that is allowed by the terms of the pre-nuptial agreement.
I hope you find that person soon


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
7/28/2015 9:18 am

    Quoting  :

Glad you can do and enjoy.

I don't like dishonesty. And people omitting to tell me they have a spouse doesn't sit well with me. Not so much from a judgemental point of view (we all have different circumstances), it's just if they omit that then it always makes me wonder what else they have 'forgotten' to tell me.

But in the scenario stated, you are not the one doing anything to feel guilty about.


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
7/28/2015 1:01 pm

Maybe in my previous life yes, but when it comes to my kinky life these days, the answer is no. I just love it all and why not?


eliza1234 49F
1301 posts
7/28/2015 1:23 pm

    Quoting tinkerfun:
    Maybe in my previous life yes, but when it comes to my kinky life these days, the answer is no. I just love it all and why not?
Precisely! Embrace your kinks I say!



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