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cuzisaid 53F  
14987 posts
8/1/2015 9:08 am

That's right indeed.

We don roles of choice and necessity like we put on clothes. Sometimes we wear none at all, sometimes several changes throughout the day, but never staying in only one. Roles are our costume so the world recognizes us. And maybe so we can remind or recognize ourselves and who we are or want to be.

Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character.
At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached.
May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black
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~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
8/1/2015 10:03 am

    Quoting cuzisaid:
    That's right indeed.

    We don roles of choice and necessity like we put on clothes. Sometimes we wear none at all, sometimes several changes throughout the day, but never staying in only one. Roles are our costume so the world recognizes us. And maybe so we can remind or recognize ourselves and who we are or want to be.
Nicely put, Cuzi.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
8/3/2015 4:57 pm

We can call ourselves Dominant, submissive or whatever but when the door closes and we enter our bubble these roles melt into one. No, it doesn't mean that we both become both of these 'roles' but it just flows and BDSM is the way we express ourselves, our love and our bond which is the ultimate energy and source of true being. We can just be. Fulfilled and as it was meant to be. Self actualisation for both or it is for one unit?



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