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mstrm291 73M/60F

9/29/2016 4:14 pm

I can see your point so well and can feel empathy for you.
62 miles is not a lot of miles, I do that on a round trip to the office, when I go there.
Some people just don't get it.


DancingDom 74M
22475 posts
9/29/2016 4:32 pm

Reality is not predictable and can be scary compared to the perfect fantasy that play out on line or via phone/text.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


slaveforyou365 63M  
4488 posts
9/29/2016 5:05 pm

Same with most of us a lot of fakes but I keep trying.

Slave rick


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9548 posts
9/29/2016 7:54 pm

I just posted about a fake couple. It's ridiculous the lengths that people will go through wasting people's time. They should have their profile removed from the site.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


bdst1 63M
703 posts
9/30/2016 12:20 am

One of my friends has sustained a relationship for a few years while 200 miles apart. So, it can work. But it is not for everyone. I think the issue here is not the distance (that is just a plausible excuse) but the fact that someone has led you on for ages then pulled out at the last minute. This has wound you up and wasted your time. A real shame. But, to be honest, far better for this to happen online than after you've met. Or for him not to turn up after you've driven 60 miles. I assume that if you're chatting online to someone you don't actually exclude other conversations so hopefully it is not as if this guy has cost you opportunities, just wasted your time. C'est la vie.

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drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
9/30/2016 4:55 am

It is not only frustrating it can hurt, make you question yourself. Chalk it up to life and know that it's his loss.


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9548 posts
10/2/2016 1:55 pm

Patience is a virtue. I completely understand your frustrations. I know what I want and I want it now. I hate endless vacuous communication.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


Brandalynna   

10/3/2016 8:49 am

I can tell things have changed over time. Craigslist has been my only option these days have to talk on Skype first before meeting. But I meet my first Master here on Alt but I sent pictures with his name so he know was me was no cam back then. But yes people should be upfront. But if you looking for long term with out the games you need to be upfront with all. But if your just looking play person your just going to get them when they want you. A lot of men want the women to travel to them thing is women have to feel safe they should come to us first. I have traveled many times out of state for guys we made agreements made sure to be safe. I traveled to guy once he did not look like his pictures he wanted sec right off the bat right when I got of the plane I went straight home. I am only for one guy not messing around but other people can do what they want. But really if you want to you need to put your self out there. I keep everything classy and keep it behind clothes doors for the right one to keep the players away. People have freewill. BDSM is a love and trust not a game. Make sure the person lives in Country and speaks the same language you heard there voice seen them on cam they look like their from America.


no1special308 72M

11/4/2016 6:11 pm

for me 50-75 miles is a no brainer. meet by all means. over 100 becomes harder. a face to face clears up a lot of questions



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