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drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
3/25/2017 5:03 pm

So happy the evening was enjoyable. I understand that wanting to feel the "Passion", it's that craving we have......

I'm anxious to see just how this works out for you. If the puppies liked him, well, that's a start.


likesmatureones 55M

3/26/2017 7:07 am

wow Honey you better clear out your boards for this reply...

Okay to begin with what your suffering from is "woman itis"..meaning your a normal FUCKING woman..so quit worrying so much...
this is the part of the romance novel where the rogue usually would pull you ( the smart/ powerful/independent woman) across his knee and spank your bottom.
( cause I'm feeling this is what this really boils down to..insert stern meany but sexy authority male face emoji here..lol)

WOMEN ( and YES OMG THIS IS SUCH A GENERALIZATION...so no need to jump up and scream at your screens ladies).. but women in a nutshell tend to worry about what other people think/ they want perfection. They put up hoops for a man to jump through to "prove himself".worthy...
why? cause they are worried about what other people will think of this man..
.
You said this guy is wonderful/made you feel great/hell even the dogs trust him.. they literally jumped in bed with you all...

But then again you can't trust men good with dogs .. there are alot of rogues out there who are also good with dogs..just saying lil..hell I'm practically st francis of Assisi.

So this guy is polite/wants to make you happy/spoons and is great with your dogs and your worried why he isn't a bodice ripper??? OMG really.. you wonder why he is so polite and quiet?

I get the whole wanting to be dominated in the bedroom feeling. ( trust me I've been on both sides of the stick..er dick)
. And no it isn't a thing where women ( in society) secretly want to be dominated by men.
Rather it's that need to be desired/wanted/appreciated/ you want to feel that raw powerful sex energy of a man ( oh wow I just think I made myself wet)

The rogue character ( tall/handsome/brooding ) was created as a release valve for women... notice in all those books this character isn't emotionally attached to anyone/usually smarter than everyone except the heroine/broods all the time ( probably cause he isn't getting any and has a major league stick in his ass)/and rarely is sexual with anyone in the story.
The rogue is the stereotypical depiction of the male in animalistic form. He is deep/he is passionate/it's like he is literally covered in his own manly musk
( hmm gives one a different thing to ponder when you go to see "beauty and the beast" ladies.. is it really a movie about love or human sexuality?

The rogue allows a woman to be overtly sexual without the guilt.. basically the heroine isn't a slut for falling for such a man. She can have sex without the emotional attachment.

So you want the rogue and what you got was the cuddler? hmmm...perhaps you could just split me in half because I am the best of both those worlds....but enough about me..

Your man could be suffering from "Goddess" syndrome....sometimes Women don't want to be Dommes...they chose instead to be "Goddesses"...
meaning they expect the male to just already worship them/obey them/try to make their lives easier/make them happy..
Sub males in these situations don't see the woman in a sexual way... more like a fan worship...they are just happy to be part of her world...so they become like lil puppy dogs. Could explain the "just spooning" aspect...I'm mean I spoon and I'm very bi/heading out the gay door sexually... but I'd do more than just spoon if I was in your bed my dear..just saying...so it makes me think something is going on here
Your an independent/confident/strong woman...
Him? seems like a nice guy..but very beta.. Do you find yourself making alot of the decisions on where you all go or do that night?


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
3/26/2017 9:17 am

Hope it was nice to get some action again but I do wonder if it just wasn't the greatest match? Did you fancy him? Find him attractive? Were you eager to become intimate with him or did it just happen? X



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