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verytallsub 43M
375 posts
7/30/2015 6:19 pm

I totally agree. I got sent one a few days ago and disagreed with about 40% of it.

If 50 Shades of Grey was accurate there would be three films. All of which would just be them negotiating the contract.

They may as well just go all out and insist on each party having their lawyers present, to discuss their respective legal positions, and bargaining rights.

"My client is unhappy with the terms proposed by the fisting routine suggested on page 36, paragraph 12"


jenny14 75T  
90121 posts
7/30/2015 6:21 pm

Rayne

You are very reasoned

I agree - a Contract is not a necessity but I do know some like them, like a collar as a sign of their commitment!

Like everything, I think it is up to each couple to decide! but I agree - a piece of paper does NOT make a relationship!!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


lastguymn 56M

7/30/2015 6:34 pm

I'm on your side of the fence regarding contracts...in the type of D/s relationship I'm looking for, there is no need for such formalities.

I do have some understanding, though, of those who are attracted to very strict protocols in their relationships. A friend and I have talked at length about how she needs that kind of structure to stay in a submissive mindset, and contracts do seem to fit into that high-protocol style of D/s.

The only real danger I see surrounding contracts are those cases I've witnessed where I'm not sure that those entering into the contract understand that it's nothing more than a ceremonial gesture. I worry that some might be of the mindset that they can't simply walk away from bad situations because they signed a contract and don't understand that breaking it carries no legal ramifications whatsoever.

Contracts are not for me, though. I'm really more of a bedroom Dom most of the time. I want D/s to be a part—a pretty big part, actually—of my relationship with my partner, but not so big that it completely defines it. The only contract I'd ever consider signing is a marriage certificate...and I'm not completely sold on that, to be completely honest.


~LastGuy

"It's great to be here. It's great to be anywhere." -- Keith Richards

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fitboypink2020 47M
13 posts
7/30/2015 7:24 pm

id sign a. contract making me the property
of the right mistress(s) and has anybody got any
ideas how far a contract could go?!


Maleficent4U 52F
116 posts
7/30/2015 7:54 pm

I don't agree with the contracts, nor do I like the thought of a marriage certification. I just things change when these are involved in a relationship, sign the piece of paper and kabam, things change!!!! . Just my thoughts.



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