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cherrydoll22 45F
30 posts
8/2/2015 8:52 pm
Extract From A Dominant s Blog


A Dominant man and a submissive woman understand exactly what they seek .She desires to please him and in so doing ,finds a sense of peace and belonging .He recognises her need and provides her that world ,within which she can explore and feel safe .

He knows her ,all of her and he requires to know more .He constantly evolves . . . . she fuels him . . . . the control of him ,as he guides her wherever he is .

His hand in the small of her back ,steering her wherever he wishes her to walk .Her adoration ,as she knows that she is his . . . and only his . The look ,as he watches her walk ,her glance back to make sure she is never far from is direction .

It is not easily understood by most

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Yes ,this extract conveys a harmonious understanding of a D/s relationship and encapsulates the essence of my own dream of submission and service .

cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
8/3/2015 1:45 pm

Thank you Lilli for your comment only please do re read .I do not remark that an "extract " of this blog encapsulates my dream , it is its "essence ",its core , its heart .Is there any need to elaborate ?


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
12/19/2015 12:51 pm

Thank you UnbrokenIntrigue for your comments , oh yes ,i agree ,there are so many interesting people and so creative .I love to hear how others feel when they engage in their passions and the differing perceptions they hold .

The excerpt resonates with you , how lovely ,how wonderful ! I would love to have this mood of connection in my life .You are blessed to know this in your own life Xx


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
5/14/2016 7:43 pm

Hello to you Asublooking , I wish to thank you for your comments .I think i know the video you mean .I love to look at other members photo s ,videos and blogs ,so many lively creative folks .When i see beauty ,i am compelled to remark and if i see bullying ,ignorance or injustice sometimes i remark also .

I do not doubt that the sub had given her consent however when we are given unrelenting sadism and never a gesture of tenderness or aftercare ,for me it becomes unpalatable .

Always , i stand alone ,on those times when i feel i must speak out . . . . again i thank you for your sensitivity ,warmth and supportive comments


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
3/14/2018 8:24 pm

Thank you Asexybody ,I appreciate your comment .

I have researched the practice of bdsm for several years and
also been fortunate to communicate with sound Master Doms .

As for my actual practical experience , it is sadly lacking


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
4/15/2018 12:09 am

Hi,
There is no other mechanism to contact you as I can't read either of your messages except for the first few words. To the best of my knowledge, our only interaction has been a joke remark that I placed on your status update with a play on words about Notts and knots. I don't think we have ever conversed in a chat room even, so if you believe I have made more contact than this with you it suggests to me that somebody has hacked your account or mine. From the words I can see, you appear to be upset - I cannot see how this could be due to me based on my known (extremely limited) interaction with you.
Best wishes,
Raven


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
5/7/2018 8:48 am

Ah yes Raven ,I remember .Your comment {joke } ,in my status box
felt to me ,to be inappropriate and a off the cuff remark .

I feel that a joke ,is a shared activity ,a generous exchange .

No really , I spotted comments you had made on others
which were ,I felt incongruous to your given beliefs .

Thank you Raven for your correspondence .


Attila_the_Pun 66M

5/12/2018 5:00 am

It is totally understood by those who have guided another along the path of D/s.
It takes honour, strength, time, patience, communication and dedication to achieve the harmony. I would hazard a guess that very few on here have all those qualities.


CawintShard 68M

5/25/2018 12:39 pm

    Quoting Attila_the_Pun:
    It is totally understood by those who have guided another along the path of D/s.
    It takes honour, strength, time, patience, communication and dedication to achieve the harmony. I would hazard a guess that very few on here have all those qualities.
Those are good qualities. I just wonder if the road to D/s is strictly a myth.


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
9/21/2018 2:38 pm

Thank you .We so frequently discover that what was
considered a myth is true .
We can take it as a given ,that the majority of humanity is
brainwashed and accepts disinformation as the truth .

To know what is real and true requires one to master one s
thoughts and emotions .To create inner stillness regulary and
to question one s belief systems .Everyone can ,with patience,
still their relentless thoughts .

If one discovers that they do not have the patience ,well ,one
can deliver themselves to a "Dom" and he/she can subjugate
you ,until your mind is quiet .It helps if the Dom has mastery
over his own mind ,ho ho ho ho !
?


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
9/21/2018 2:51 pm

Thank you Cawintshard ,I understand your point of view .So many ,shall
we say "Would be Doms" are emotionally disfunctional . . . . . and at
worst are tyrants ,bullies ,psychopaths and sociopaths .


Mrpaulux1 55M
227 posts
12/29/2018 6:06 am

Great


JoElspanstp 70M

5/25/2020 8:16 am

    Quoting cherrydoll22:
    Thank you Lilli for your comment only please do re read .I do not remark that an "extract " of this blog encapsulates my dream , it is its "essence ",its core , its heart .Is there any need to elaborate ?
Fewer and concise words explain it beautifully. Often when trying to define the D/s dynamic we get lost in words. What we thought we understood gets lost so easily with too many words. D/s is as simple as it is complex. Honesty, care and understanding are key. I get exactly what you said.


Albaspross 67M
462 posts
11/17/2020 1:56 pm

Dear Cherry Lady !

I agree with you in the following way.
A partnership is possible, when there is a respect to the needs of the other team mate, too. Solutions are possible, when I want it.

We have in Germany a big problem with listening what the other team mate wants.
Many persons do not have patience in our time.

All the best 4you.

Yours
-albaspross-


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
11/21/2020 2:31 pm

Dear Albaspross ,Yes ,I agree ,many want immediate gratification
in whatever they turn their attention or needs to .
Such a way of being just cannot be sustained and therefore they become
agitated ,unhappy and finally bitter unless they get to better know themslves .

Patience need not be a painful ,frustrating experience ,indeed ,I take it
as a delightful opportunity to take my awareness inward and to enjoy
relaxation ,peace of mind and if lucky ,inspiration .


Albaspross 67M
462 posts
11/22/2020 12:18 pm

    Quoting cherrydoll22:
    Dear Albaspross ,Yes ,I agree ,many want immediate gratification
    in whatever they turn their attention or needs to .
    Such a way of being just cannot be sustained and therefore they become
    agitated ,unhappy and finally bitter unless they get to better know themslves .

    Patience need not be a painful ,frustrating experience ,indeed ,I take it
    as a delightful opportunity to take my awareness inward and to enjoy
    relaxation ,peace of mind and if lucky ,inspiration .
Dear Cherry Lady !

Thanks for your statement.

Patience need not be a painful ,frustrating experience ,indeed , I take it as a delightful [ adjective wunderbare ] opportunity to take my awareness
inward [ adjective ( in-going ) nsvh innrn gehend ] and to enjoy
relaxation, peace of mind and if lucky, inspiration .

Without patience and confidence, nobody will have its chance.
Peace in mind make you able to create new ideas and proposals.

Yours
-albaspross-


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
11/24/2020 8:20 am

Thank you Albaspross ,do you enjoy peace of mind ?
I know from reading your profile that you are distant
from your emotions ? I have a deep relationship to my
emotions and the emotions of others .To allow emotions
to be acknowledged and to allow them to flow is such a
healthy process .Intuition is closely linked to ones feelings ,
yes, feelings are absolutely vital in life .
I get the feeling from your profile ,that you wish to come
clooser to your feelings /emotions ,is this so ?


Albaspross 67M
462 posts
11/24/2020 1:24 pm

Dear Cherry Lady !

Thanks for your statement.

" ( ... ) do you enjoy peace of mind ? "
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Maybe, I have not thought about it. I am careful in the beginning, yes.
Beeing careful, does not say, I am without emotions and feelings.

" I have a deep relationship to my emotions and the emotions of others .
To allow emotions to be acknowledged and to allow them to flow is such a
healthy process
. "
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I am interisted to know you more and understand you better, step by step.
You have the normal right,to express your positions, feelings, emotions and all your points of views. I have the same qualities, too.
The question of the future will be, can we reach compromises as well ?
I see myself as a team player.

And of course, I have think new ideas and proposals, too.
I am not perfect, and I am aware of it.

Yours
-albaspross-


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
11/25/2020 12:34 pm

Albaspross ,Thank you ,it is only when I ask you "Do you enjoy peace of mind ",
I mean about you in the everyday .I looking to discover if you know how to create peace of mind within yourself and how do you achieve it ?

I prefere to follow my own instincts and desires . . . .,and I enjoy my own company .However ,this said , I also enjoy good company ,only I find that I like time alone to recharge and be creative .
So I like to operate in my own way , however I am able to compromise and often do .
If you mean "Team player " as one who is considerate ,then yes I am .


Albaspross 67M
462 posts
11/25/2020 1:13 pm

Dear Cherry Lady !

Thanks for your answer and explications.

" I mean about you in the everyday .I looking to discover if you know how to
create peace of mind within yourself and how do you
achieve [ vt erreichen ] it ? "
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I am reading a lot. And I like to walk, too. Both ways helps me, to find answers.
I am not the hero ro know everything, but I am educated, to look around with open eyes. Which means, sometimes, I have proposals.

" I also enjoy good company ,only I find that I like time alone to recharge and
be creative . "
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I am not a judge. We have in German a good word on a wing. Many roads leads to Rome. Which means, there is not only one solution.
You have lifed 47 years successfully without me.
Our way can and should be, the carefully approach.

I have no doubts in your handling.

The " sprit of team playing " is the key for many openings.

Yours
-albaspross-


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
12/15/2020 7:50 pm

Ah yes ,I love to walk also ,especially in nature
I too love to read and also to write prose and poetry .I love to draw and take photographs .I have a passion for dancing ,especially free form ,it is a meditation for me .

I have many passions and so many ideas and interests to explore ,such as surfing ,skate boarding , cold water swimming ,performing shibari ,traveling etc .

We also have that particular saying "Many roads lead to Rome " and also a more shocking one " There is more than one way to skin a cat "


masterincontrole 59M
2 posts
12/22/2020 7:51 pm

so perfect and very true!


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
12/26/2020 2:25 am

Masterincontrol , Are you refering to " There is more than one way to skin a cat "or "Many roads lead to Rome " or other ?


Albaspross 67M
462 posts
4/25/2021 10:11 am

Dear Cherry Lady !

What are you doing, now ? I miss your statements and points of view.

Yours
-albaspross-


Albaspross 67M
462 posts
11/18/2021 1:49 pm

Dear Cherry Lady !

I miss your statements.

Yours
-albasspross-


ridermantel 68M

3/5/2022 2:47 am

I like this. It is hard to explain to some with words. To feel it is to understand it. Words are words.


cherrydoll22 replies on 2/12/2024 6:18 pm:
Yes ,absolutely ,to feel it ,is to know it .Thank you ,so true

MushinNoShin 57M
1 post
1/7/2023 4:37 am

I really like this. It is beautiful. Words are only part of communication and how you make someone feel is - whatever the situation is - is so much more.


rydermantel 68M
23762 posts
12/30/2023 8:01 am

I feel it is the reciprocal nature that makes a D/s relationship a successful one. Reciprocal is an important word in this equation.


Albaspross 67M
462 posts
2/8/2024 12:00 pm

Dear Cherry Lady !

Thanks for visiting my blog. I hope you are still alive and well. All the best 4you.

Yous
-albaspross-


cherrydoll22 45F
97 posts
2/12/2024 6:21 pm

Good wishes Dear Gentleman , I remember you always



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