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MistressTationa 34F
1 posts
11/28/2015 12:41 pm
Just some random thoughts


As the title suggests, this is just a few random thoughts I've been having, lol

"Too Cute to be a Sadist" - something that was actually told to me once. It brings the question to mind- What the hell is a sadist supposed to look like? lmao. I mean seriously, I know there is a specific look that most Domme's have, but even that is flexible (who the hell wants to wear nothing but corsets all day long, that shit get's to hurting at times when you are training).

I personally see CBT as an art form, especially the more extreme with needles, carving and pins. The most humorous thing that has happened to me in this area, was recently while I was at work. I sat my CBT chamber I recently received in the mail on the counter top. A gentlemen got up and quickly strolled out of the club while I was rummaging in purse for my phone.

These two things lead to my awesome CBT sub in the UK. Although it's kind of impersonal with a cam, The fun just never stops with him. I love my little masochist pin cushion <3 lol. Now if I could just stay in constant supply of raw steak, I'd be a happy Mistress....haha

I dunno what some of you other Dom/Domme's are doing out there, but apparently I'm an oddity. Why don't more of you talk more in-depthly with your subs? I've spoken with so many just here on alt who are looking for a caring Dom/Domme to work with. Someone who takes a serious interest in them on a personal level. Open communication is a very strong thing in this scene as well as any relationship, so why the hidden emotions? Why hide that you care? I dunno, seems a little silly to me. I speak with my subs about everything and anything because it creates a strong bond with that individual. I guess if you are just a hit it and quit it type then that's the type of thing you want, but in my experience my subs tend to linger around and talk to me even after months of no contact because I worked with them and talked to them on multiple levels.

One more thought, and one of my favorite phrases recently - I'm a Sadist, not a Cunt/prick/bitch/etc..

Why do I say this? Easy, a true sadist finds enjoyment not just in the pain but the pleasure the other is receiving, a prick/cunt/etc... does it for their own enjoyment and doesn't care about the other person involved....Pain and pleasure walk a fine line, and it's important to use and respect that line...

anyway....just a few thoughts while I'm self medicating with coffee. the adhd mind is a strange one at times. till next time


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