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IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
6/8/2016 8:35 pm

Make sure you save screen captures of his nonsense if he continues to harass and stalk you here as well as anywhere else online.

I remember now.


quietroar 59F
9647 posts
6/8/2016 8:46 pm

Zvibro I think is his own fellow. I do not believe that he is something make believe but is actually a real person unless Sternman puts more personality into that avatar than others- but I do believe that he is real.

BettyforPlaze, who politely told me that she gets to enjoy sucking off the top blogger on Alt, on the other hand, I suspect is a sock pocket. She proclaimed her love for serving Sternman on several occasions in capitalized pink letters. I guess she better get ready for the strap on since Katie is now on top.

I just think that this whole thing is an ego trip of a poor soul who has to boost his own ratings.


quietroar 59F
9647 posts
6/8/2016 8:49 pm

    Quoting  :

Why did you give him your phone number?


quietroar 59F
9647 posts
6/8/2016 8:53 pm

I would not put all blame of everything on this server and blogging and people leaving and what not upon Sternman. There are others, and there are people leaving for other reasons. Sometimes, it's just easier to blame a scapegoat than divulge the truth.

But paranoia never does anyone any good. Just keep posting and blogging and enjoying yourself. And realize that he has not really bothered me- probably because I am not "cheesecake" worthy so not even worth a swat toward a pesky fly in his book.


IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
6/8/2016 9:41 pm

    Quoting quietroar:
    I would not put all blame of everything on this server and blogging and people leaving and what not upon Sternman. There are others, and there are people leaving for other reasons. Sometimes, it's just easier to blame a scapegoat than divulge the truth.

    But paranoia never does anyone any good. Just keep posting and blogging and enjoying yourself. And realize that he has not really bothered me- probably because I am not "cheesecake" worthy so not even worth a swat toward a pesky fly in his book.
Where did you see someone blame him for all the ills of this site? The criticisms / accusations have been both focused and, when necessary, backed with evidence.

I'm glad that he hasn't really bothered you. That doesn't mean that he hasn't bothered other members both on- and off-site.

There is no paranoia here. Nor is there a "scapegoat". He and he alone is responsible for his actions. What he admits to privately he denies publicly.

I suggest you privately ask ConvivialControl why brimmingover left this site.

I remember now.


MissLadywood 51F
6195 posts
6/9/2016 4:33 am

I was on a blog yesterday that had quite a few of his puppets making comments and because of that i didn't bother to comment.
A shame really it was a funny one.

Sorry to hear your getting grief

Oh and Zibiro, whatever his name is, definitely is one of them quiteroar.

Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn


quietroar 59F
9647 posts
6/9/2016 6:29 pm

Okay- thanks for the emails and posts. I appreciate the input that I have received but I need to be able to retort for a moment.

Sternman has many profiles- he has hit me with a few of them- as does zentiger and a few others. We all know that there are more than one person who has made several accounts in order to compliment or argue or attack other people while leaving the main to appear innocent. My statement about don't blame everything on Sternman was related to that- I know of at least one woman who plays the same game- and I know several who play other games that infuriate the population. I was just saying that things are not always what they seem as there are several people who play this game, and in the process, people have been falsely accused (like 2nd and Michael being the same person).

As for the number, yes, I have made that mistake but as I have a number of people on Alt that I am proud to call friend, I think mistakes can be made. Blocking numbers is easy. There is a guy in NC who would love to continue bothering me but I finally loopholed and block him from phone, FB, twitter, KiK, and a few instant messaging ways that I forgot I had. He kept me busy for a long time so I get this and the hassle that is created because of it. I have been told that I was far too patient and pleasant for far too long- and I was, but I take responsibility and I no longer allow him in my life to the point of a restraining order in waiting. And yes, I met this guy on Alt. He too seemed normal (to me at least, others have told me otherwise).

But the point I was trying to make is that unless we have proof, let's not accuse everyone of being a sock puppet to someone else- for example, several people have stated that zvibroman is Sternman- I do not believe this is so given that zvibfro existed for a very long while and speaks to different issues than Sternman. I am not denying any of the activities that Sternman has done but I am not going to run around accusing accounts of being a puppet unless I know for a fact that they are a puppet. That's what I meant by paranoia- I will continue my blog and deal with the issues that the sock puppets give me- if I lose readers because of this, so be it- but I will stick to Sternman and only the evidence that I have when I make an accusation.

I may be digging a bigger hole for myself and CC, I support any and all bloggers as they stand up to this individual- I just don't want to see an innocent person get caught in this and blamed for something that they necessarily did not do.


quietroar 59F
9647 posts
6/9/2016 6:47 pm

"I may be digging a bigger hole for myself and CC, I support any and all bloggers as they stand up to this individual- I just don't want to see an innocent person get caught in this and blamed for something that they necessarily did not do."

I want to build on this. I have made my feelings about Sternman clear to him and several other people I speak with on Alt. I hated his cheesecake posts- I believe that they were sexiest and sent the wrong message about women, I believe that he is in denial regarding his actions and beliefs, and I feel very strongly that he promotes an image of BDSM which is neither realistic nor appropriate- in truth, I believe him to be a very inexperienced individual who merely uses this site to fantasize about his sexuality when he most likely is the quintessential "unemployed, living in his parent's basement, and plays online computer games" geek lifestyle where he gets his jollies off making us all believe he is a superior Dom. The reality is, he is an insecure man who engages in both narcissistic and condescending behaviors that creates an atmosphere of chaos among all of us who hang out here.

Sternman will go away under one of two conditions: if we ignore him or we get Alt to ban him. The more we talk about him, the more we build his ego, but if he doesn't exist- that is the worst punishment we can give him. He feeds off us; we don't let him in.

So, like I said, I may lose readers and my blog in all this, but addressing the issue, alerting people to the issue, and then ostracizing the individual is the best form of action we can take, recognizing that the behavior will increase for awhile but as we all ignore what happens, the individual will eventually move on in search of attentions in other formats. Just like several other individuals before him have left because we realized that there was poison on the forum but also realize we have lost some really good people as well because of that poison.

I wish Brimming would come back since we are all aware. I wish every woman would come back who was attacked by zentiger and sternman because now that the population is aware, we can avoid and move forward from this negative chapter into the next one. After all, as far as we know, Galk could be behind all of this . . .


IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
6/13/2016 10:45 am

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he's a drama queen.

Take his advice and turn it on him. Flush him.

I remember now.


Brandalynna   

7/3/2016 9:20 am

If you have a problem with the person you can block them.



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