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Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
5/1/2016 9:44 pm

I've never claimed to be entirely truthful.

Guilty as charged! I don't really disagree with anything you've said here.

There are only two things I can think of you can do about social standards you don't care for. Prove them wrong or prove you can meet them. You've already done one once. It wouldn't surprise me if you could come pretty close again. I also wouldn't be surprised if you proved the standard wrong.

By the way, I think you may be wrong about weight being the last openly acceptable prejudice in our society. Age is the other. But that is not the issue we're dealing with here.

I still far prefer to have a knockout on my arm when I go out on the town, and fortunately I can still manage that. But I've also learned something about myself over the past year. I can, and currently do, have a great time, in the sack or out, with a girl I met here on alt. who considerably outweighs me, just like she can have a great time with me when I have 25 or 30 years on her. We may have to improvise, but the ability to recognize and adapt to changed circumstances is one of the surest indicators of intelligence, isn't it?

As long as we have a little swagger and clean up good, we can all pass muster. I believe I've gotten to know you pretty well in the relatively short time you've been here, and I think you've got it.

And you do know what to do with it when you've got it, don't you baby? Flaunt it!


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
5/2/2016 3:07 am

How beautifully written, somewhat raw.

What horrible things you have heard . I would love to see a picture of your new corset. Tbh, I envy fuller figured girls as the way they can pull of a corset is exquisite. I find it a real struggle to find a corset that properly fits me. I have on occasion put socks under my breasts (it can work well!) so the I don't expose my nipples when I move but usually I have therefore only ever worn them once.

Us women are filled with insecurities. You may see my body and think that I'm one of the slim ones you talk about. Would it therefore surprise you that my Dominant thinks I'm too skinny (which I am)? I also get told off by the doctors in the family how bad it is to be underweight. I actually think that I have some issues with my appetite as yes I can easily forget to eat and being hungry doesn't bother me - until I'm totally starving and start getting properly dizzy. I've always been the same.

My Dominant even told me that had he seen my photo before getting to know me he would have probably dismissed me on my body type alone (he likes athletic types). So people really do have different preferences and if we allow ourselves we can go past our ideals. My Dominant is sensitive enough not to go on about my weight but he always compliments me when I've managed to put on weight. Yet I always know he would prefer me bigger.

You are beautiful and no one with hurtful words deserves you



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