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OnlyOneBarry 63M

9/29/2016 1:08 pm

 Lol, believe Me when I say you are correct. Combine that with the fakes and flakes and it makes it next to impossible to find someone real who truly desires to live and explore the lifestyle. Nevertheless... we keep searching. ,-)


RavishYou1955 69M  
211 posts
9/29/2016 3:21 pm

 Get girls sending me, one of sickest bastards on alt, messages more appropriate for plenty of fish or match.com i love my real alt girls and this is sickening. thank you for putting words to my angst.


DancingDom 74M
22531 posts
9/29/2016 4:23 pm

 It was not like that in the beginning. But its been sold twice. They have marketed it much like ALT.com as an easy access sex site. At one point, they marketed the notion you could"get laid" guaranteed in 30 days. They dropped that a couple of years ago. But it has been changed more and more toward just sex; relationships.....they do not really promote such or the BDSM, DS, MS aspects. Just kinky sex.notice the opening pages promote "kinky fetishes" blah blah blah.

There are good folks on the site, you have to just ignore the asshats and twat waffles. Plentyu of good folks blog here.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


DancingDom 74M
22531 posts
10/4/2016 8:58 am
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Just ignore them.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


DancingDom 74M
22531 posts
10/4/2016 9:00 am
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It is the same for most of the folks who joined for things other than sex. You ca get sex easy enough in day to day life. If that was all I was interested in, I would not be here. Finding a partner with substance is not an easy chore. Hard to soar with the Eagles when y our surrounded by Turkey Vultures.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


JoElspanstp 70M

7/22/2020 10:43 pm
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So in four years things have not really changed for the better. I think social distancing has affected and changed our behavior and thus the site.


JoElspanstp 70M

7/24/2020 5:21 am
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I think films and novels with BDSM themes often bastardize their subject and just don't get it right. I am not a fan of 50 SHADES literary or cinematic presentations. However, SECRETARY, the 2002 film captures the essence of BDSM in its most basic form examining the psychology of behaviors in a refreshing approach. SECRETARY does not tell us how, but instead makes us try to understand why.



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