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My Opinion on Relocating

wether a Master should pay to relocate asubor slave or should they pay thierselfs?

Relocating subs/slaves
Posted:Mar 20, 2015 3:15 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2015 3:52 am
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!!!! ATTENTION ALL SLAVES !!!!
Seem's I need to veritfy a few things so is NO MisUnderstanimg ,I Am a Real Master ,have been in Lifestyle since was 18 yrs old, I have been around and have played the games and had been played in My early yrs but with that comes Knowledge and Experience, So My point is do come onto to Me wanting Me to be your Master and own you and the most Important part ""Relocate"" ,I have played this games yrs ago and kow the outcome ,laffs Im still waiting 15 yrs on several to come so as can see any FOOL that sends any slave or sub money to relocate that have only been talking to for a week or even 6 months is still a fool unlesss You have talked to them on phone and exchangemail and I mean snail mail old fashion lick a stamp mail , so if your a slave looking to be located at My expens dont bother Me ,I have better things to do then waste time on players and wannabe's,I feel if they truly want to be with you and working dont see why need to help only saying this if you have only have had omline conversations and phone , mail,now is different if you 2 have been to visit each other then you know for sure it is true and not a game , some may see Me as a hard some as a total ass on this subject but I'm just giving all My view of what has happened to Me over the yrs and to others I've known for yes not only Dominants being played but by subs/slaves being played and hurt ,but will leave that for another topic for another time.
MasterTJ
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BDSM Rules, Rights and Guidelines
Posted:Jan 27, 2015 11:10 pm
Last Updated:Oct 5, 2017 12:34 am
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Basic human rights, laws and courtesy apply no matter what

There are normal manners and courtesy just like the rest of society. So just because you claim yourself to be a Dom/me don’t expect to treat submissive's as if they were your submissive, that is NOT OKAY. Just because you claim yourself to be a submissive don’t expect Dom/me's to treat you as if you are theirs, that is NOT OKAY.

No one should expect a sub to wait on a Dom/me or a Dom/me to issue orders to them when not in a relationship with them.
Until you give your gift of submission to a Dom/me. NO Dom/me has the right to intimidate, force, demand or take away your freedom.
Until you have accepted a sub, NO sub has the right to try to manipulate, hound, demand or take away your freedom.
Both must have trust and respect for each other, this is not one sided.

Neither should lie or hide things from each other, nor should either side accept it being done.
Both should be emotionally and physically sound and expect to stay that way in ANY relationship.
Both should take the time they feel they need and not allow the other to force or rush them into ANYTHING.

Subs don’t expect the Dom/me to fix/solve all your problems. Sure your Dom/me wants to hear about your life but they don’t want to hear you talk about your problems continuously, this makes you into a needy, high maintenance sub, get a therapist if you have real problems. Dom/mes it goes for you as well, if you are constantly dumping your problems on your subbie, you are just weighing them down with things they can’t fix (and they do want to fix everything for you), if you have real problems see a therapist.

Dom/mes don't want a doormat (a person used by another person for their own benefit without regard for the persons feelings, growth or well being). Why would a Dom/me want to be involved with someone that will submit to anyone for anything at anytime? They wouldn't. Both should want someone that respects themselves otherwise how can they respect you?
Subs you are expected to obey immediately and not question the Dom/me ever.
Both should expect respect from the other.

Both should have safe words and it should be clearly understood that they will be used if either feels a need. Using a safe word does not mean anything beyond what the word represents. i.e., a safe word for slowing down, for checking in, for I need to talk about this now, etc. Never think any less of the person for using their safeword.
Subs should expect to tell the Dom/me what they would like if they feel a need is not being met. (Yes, yes done respectfully)
Subs should expect to tell the Dom/me their dreams, fantasies, what they think are their needs and what they think is missing. This might be done verbally or in a journal.

Dom/mes are allowed to express tenderness, love and understanding when they desire and not be seen in a non Dommly manner by a sub.
Subs are allowed to express a need for tenderness, love and understanding when they feel the need.
Subs should expect to be allowed to ask questions as long as done respectfully.
Subs you have to believe the instructions/orders your Dom/me gives you have been done with thought and care. You should not constantly question your Dom/me about the instructions/orders. Clarifying questions are usually acceptable when asked in a respectful manner.

Subs should expect to be allowed to bring up concerns they might have and expect the Dom/me to listen and consider what they are saying. Yes this is to be done respectfully and yes the Dom/me has the final word, but the sub has to feel you gave it consideration and not a just because I say so response.
Both should expect the other to make mistakes, one prays it is not one of endangerment.
A Dom/me has the right to stop any play/scene at any time.
A sub has the right to stop any play/scene at any time.
Dom/mes should never feel guilty for applying real punishment or for fulfilling their Dom/me responsibilities.
Both should never be abusive to the other.

Subs you have to believe the instructions/orders are given with thought and care and not just to see how far you will go or how many weird things you will do for them.

A sub will never consider herself a weak person for being submissive. It actually takes a submissive strong enough to admit to themselves the desire within to serve, obey and please their Dom/me.

A sub will always focus on pleasing her Dom/me and hopes the Dom/me will find her pleasing.
Subs are always in submission to their Dom/me even outside their presence.
Subs should always be prepared to please their Dom/me anywhere, anytime, no matter what the circumstances or who is around.
Subs will only make their choices based on if they will or will not please their Dom/me. As well as make their choices within the orders/boundaries/instructions/guidelines their Dom/me has set for them.

Subs behavior at all times reflect directly upon their Dom/me, so they are to act with good representation of their Dom/me at all times.
Unless specifically agreed to/granted no sub has any rights or privileges in their relationship with their Dom/me. And any rights or privileges given can be removed at any time by the Dom/me.
The Dom/me will train, teach and shape their sub according to their wants and desires. This makes their sub worth more to them.
The Dom/me has final word in all matters or issues. The sub must believe the Dom/me has used their judgment and fairness in making the decision.

No sub can release themselves from their duties, service, collar or the relationship without the Dom/mes prior approval and consent.
Dom/mes can have as many subs as they desire or require.
Subs may never think, say or portray any thing to anyone about the relationship as abuse or abusive.
Subs are expected to keep an open mind and try new things expanding their limits.
Subs will not attempt to top from below or try to make play/scene travel a certain path.
It is a subs responsibility to figure out what pleases their Dom/me.

Subs will not allow physical harm be done to them if at all possible.
Subs are expected to be courteous and to assist other subs whenever they can.
Subs are never allowed to think they are a better sub than another.
Subs should be allowed to ask for help if they feel the need.
Subs should be allowed to ask for attention rather than act up to get attention.
Subs should be allowed to expect aftercare following any play/scene.

After the aftercare,the Dom/me/sub should sit down and discuss the play/scene to get the subs thoughts on if hitting her peaks or if can push boundies more .
Or if was a punishment to discuss what cuased her todo what she did and how can hange things so dont repeat it again.

Subs should expect to be reminded of their submission.
Dom/mes should expect to be reminded they are the Dom/me when a sub feels they are being allowed to wander too far or get away with too much.

"In denying it we deny our nature.In betraying it we betray no one but ourselves.The Master will never be happy until He is a Master.The slave will never be happy until she is a slave.It is what we are."

"Avoid loud braggarts;they are not worth your time.Never allow mere words to cloud your judgment,instead hold fast to your self discipline as your codes demand."

"If the man be strong,the woman must submit.given the opportunity to relate to a true man,few woman will settle for less.Indeed,true women,in the belly of them,desire to submit to true men."
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subs/slaves
Posted:Jan 27, 2015 11:06 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2015 11:52 pm
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subs/slaves

"Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart,Who looks outside,dreams.Who looks inside,awakens"

"No woman, it is said, knows truly what she is until she has worn the collar".

"When you accept the collar and proclaim yourself slave you surrender yourself completely ,wholly,unreservedly."

"Consider that word. Weigh its meaning. It indicates that you have entered a state of being where you will behave as commanded, do as you are told, and strive to fulfill that role in our mutual society."

"Slavery has many effects on a woman," it softens her, it enhances her beauty, it gives her a profound sense of herself, it fulfills her."

"The intelligence and sensitivity of many women actually tends to blossom in bondage, finding within its expression,inhibitions, happiness, fulfillment."

"Slavery itself,I said,often makes a woman more beautiful and desirable.It removes tensions.It removes inhibitions.It makes women happy."

"The true slave is within the woman.She knows it is there.She will not be happy
,until she surrenders to her inward truths."

"The love of a slave girl is the deepest and most profound love that any woman can give a man.Love makes a woman a man's slave,and the wholeness."

The life of a female slave,is a life wholly given over to love.It is not a compromised life.It is not one of those lives which is part this,and part that.It is a total way of life,a total life."

"The intelligence and sensitivity of many women actually tends to blossom in bondage,finding within it the apt environment for its expression,for its flowering.This may have to do with such matters as the release of inhibitions happiness,fulfillment,and such.

"Being submissive is in the mind,heart and soul.you live it,breath it.you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are but slave.And are free and happy in that bondage.It is also so important to be subservient,obedient,pleasing'NO MATTER'how challenged you are to maintain it."

"There are many levels of beauty,perceived ,appreciated differently.It is an individual beauty.Each one,so different,yet so lovely within their bondage."

"Beauty and intelligence are all well and good,but the best slave is she who loves most deeply."

"The collar is put on from without, but what it encircles comes from within.Slavery,true slavery,comes from within."

"she wanted a man who was greater than her,and incomparably so, one whom
she must, in the order of nature obey, one to whom she must look up. And she
did not care if it was from my knees, black with dust, a collar on my neck, naked, that she a collar on my neck, naked, that I looked up to his glory."

"No woman, it is said, knows truly what she is until she has worn the collar."
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