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What do women/men consider the foundation of a good relationship?
Posted:May 1, 2015 10:44 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2015 3:36 pm
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I am courious to know both the Female and Male side of what they consider the foundation of a relationship to be. What are the expectations of both parties involved?

What are reasonable and unreasonable expectations? I know I believe you NEED to have TRUST!!!! Without it, it will never work. Some feel you need to earn than trust, but why does it have to be earned?

Shouldn't you be able to trust them from the beginning that what they are telling you is the truth?? What do you consider to be NEEDY or simply the basics of a relationship?

I know many will say it is what is decided between the two individuals, but surely someone has to have something to help me figure this out.
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Feels Good
Posted:Mar 8, 2015 9:00 am
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2016 6:42 pm
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Since I wrote my first blog, I have tried to follow the advice given. And I think I have done a good job of it. And wellllllllllll............it FEELS GREAT!!!!

It took me a few years, ok soooooooooooo it took me MANY years to let it go...........lol but recently a family illness helped me to also realize LIFE IS TO SHORT!!!

We are NOT guaranteed what tomorrow will bring and WE HAVE to live each day to the fullest!! Because WE NEVER know what will happen next. So I am choosing to live!!!! And I am going to make MY OWN choices!!!

Screw the world if they don't like the ones I make, and that includes family and friends. It is MY TIME to SHINE and BE HAPPY!!!! And ONLY I KNOW WHO or WHAT makes ME HAPPY!!

Will I get hurt? Maybe, but then again maybe not...........but I am NEVER going to know unless I take that chance and learn to TRUST again!!! A few days, weeks, maybe a month of hurt is worth the risk of possibly finding a LIFETIME LOVE & HAPPINESS!!! Oh and maybe some good sex giggles just kidding..............well ok maybe not..........some good sex might be fun to

I just want to say thanks to the few who gave me good advice!! I took it and I even did something I NEVER would of done before.........and IT FELT REALLY good .............because I REALLY TRUSTED the person!!!

I believe I am finally on the right path to happiness, and the road to negativity is being paved over. Thanks to a little help from my friends and well a certain special someone
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Letting go...........how does one do it?
Posted:Mar 1, 2015 12:37 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2015 9:01 am
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LOL, I know by now everyone is tired of hearing those two words, and I at times I will admit I am as well. But now is the time I NEED them!! I need to know how to let go of the past, so it won't destroy MY future?

I know everyone out there has been hurt at least once in their lifetime if not more, but how do you learn to "LET it GO?" and learn to trust again? I know the past is the past and that is where it should stay.

But can anyone honestly say,that when they find themselves in the makings of trying to build a new relationship they don't think about the past? And worry will it happen again? Can I trust him? Is he going to break my heart like all the others?

My head knows it isn't fair to the "NEW GUY on the block" to put him in this category and feel he will be like all the others. But my heart is always afraid to take the chance. Until now............

I am taking the chance, but while HE is being the most patient man on Earth.....I am afraid no matter how much he says it won't HIS patience will run out. How do I TRUST again? How do I give MY heart again? IF this doesn't work, it isn't because of HIM, it's because of ME!!!!!

I DON'T WANT to lose HIM, he is the man I want, the Daddy I need, and The Dom who will teach me to serve in the way I desire to serve. And let me just say, NO matter how many times I tell HIM, I don't deserve HIM? He refuses to leave......but again one day HE may take me up on my offer and I would be devastated.

So tell me..........how can I simply "LET IT GO?" before HE lets me go?

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