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pretenders of the lifestyle
Posted:Sep 19, 2014 8:16 pm
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2014 6:57 pm
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Okay, its been a while since I last posted a blog. For those who read my profile you will see that I've been in the lifestyle for over 20 years. I recently spent some time with a sub that had a real bad experience with a so-called Dom. Once again some ass clown who didn't know what he was doing damaged another sub. There needs to be some kind of accountability with those who claim to be a Dom. Too many novice subs and slaves are being turned away from the lifestyle or causing those of us that are for real to wade through the wreckage and have to try to explain why there are so many fakes and pretenders in the lifestyle. For those who are looking to find a Master or Dom stop and take your time to check Him out. If He is for real He won't mind that you're being careful to avoid another wannabe that you are entrusting your body and soul to. I know some are desperate to find someone to serve and some have issues about their self-esteem, stop! There are plenty of Doms and Masters out there for you to find the right One.
It's my pet peeve in our lifestyle and it continues to go unchecked. Anyone can pretend to be anybody on the internet. If you have concerns about a possible Dom seek the opinion of others that you trust for help.
I hope this post helps someone before they fall prey to another wannabe Dom.
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Lone Warrior
Posted:May 8, 2009 6:12 pm
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2014 7:42 pm
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Ok so this is the third installment of the blog on this site. I am tired, perhaps soul weary tired, I served my country for over 22 1/2 years defend her and her citizens from the demons that lurk and roam the face of this Earth. After being retired due to wounds received in the line of duty I have a job that keeps me traveling alot to safe guard personnel and equipment needed to protect our country as an independent contractor. I have had several slaves that have served me over the years and I had to let one go that truly meant the world to me, as I helped bring her back from the shattered shell that she was after a wannabe Master abused her and harmed her because he didn't know what he was doing. But when Iraqi Freedom was getting ready to launch and after coming back from Afghan I saw the price that it was taking on her heart and soul from the worries and fears she lived with not knowing if she was going to get the message that I was KIA. I released her so that she could find happiness and peace and not have to be near the grim reality of what I had to do and have been doing since I joined the service. I was honored when she contacted me and asked my opinion on a Master that she found and valued my judgment of this man. I am happy that they made a great couple and she is happy in her service to this man that she later married. Since then I have not had another slave to serve me because of my duties in the service. After retiring from the service my job makes it hard sometimes to find someone that can handle my job requirements and travel schedule. I enjoy chatting with others here at Alt. But there are times when there is a deep ache in my heart to have a slave to serve me again and to enjoy the lifestyle fully again. I accepted the price I had to pay by giving up my personal life in order to service my country, both in the service and again in civilian life, but I too am human and it still hurts sometime deep down, I just never tell anyone. I learned long ago to never show any emotions or let anyone know how bad you are hurt inside or out. I know one day I will find a slave to serve me again, but until then I remain the lone warrior that quietly moves across the lands in search of her.
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Reality Check
Posted:Mar 3, 2009 12:00 pm
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2014 7:41 pm
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Ok here's my second attempt at blogging, I have been chatting with many different people in different chat rooms and looking at their profiles and one thing I have noticed is that alot of people seem to put all kinds of things that they say they are into on their profile, but when you talk to them about it they don't really do what they say or you get " it sounded good " but not really interested in doing any of it. Why bother adding this on your profile if you either don't or won't do what you listed. It's bad enough there are too many fakes and wannabes on this website as well as others but it gets old when you see someone one who checks off or claims to do anything but when you confront them about it they give you some BS answer or reason why the puff up their profile. For me as a Master I am more interested in honesty from the sub/slave than what's on their profile, but if you say you do something and I find out you don't it pisses me off. To me that puts the person in the same group as the wannabe Masters. ( see my first blog about those cretins ) If subs and slaves are worried that their profiles won't attract a Master or have low self-esteem in your skills or abilities, stop !!!!! A real Master judges the person as a whole, not on whether or not you can or can not perform certain acts. A real Master will spend the time to help his sub/slave learn and help her push her boundaries and become a better sub/slave. This lifestyle is based on trust in order to build a strong and lasting relationship and you can't have trust when there are lies and false promises of things you can or are willing to do. Most people like to improve their profile to look better than they are and that is human nature, myself I live with the attitude of if you don't like what you see or read then move on. I am who I am and I don't change I remain the same no matter what. Those who know me or get to know me can tell you that this is how I live my life. Well that's all for now, time to get off the soapbox and return to our regularly scheduled life.
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Time to clean house with wannabes
Posted:Oct 12, 2008 7:06 am
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2014 7:44 pm
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Ok so here is my first attempt to blog here, I have been in the lifestyle for over 20+ years and have enjoyed the lifestyle completely. But I am tired of seeing wannabes and fake Dom/Masters trying to ruin our ways in the lifestyle. Way too many of these cretins either don't know how or are way over their heads in what they know or can do and end up harming way too many slaves/subs in the process. When I first came into the lifestyle I had a very good Master that mentored me for the first few years as I learned all that was needed and required to be a real Dom/Master in the lifestyle. I am old school and have no qualms about being that way, too many people are playing around with the idea that all that is needed to a Master/Dom is to physically abuse someone as hard as you can and that will give you the title of Master/Dom or they scar the slave/sub emotionally so badly that many of them no longer are willing to trust anyone they meet as a Master/Dom and when they do the work that a real Master has to do to repair the damage done by the wannabes is long and takes alot of time to heal. Accountability is needed in this lifestyle for those that claim to be a Master/Dom we have no way to properly hold someone to a level and say whether or not they have earned the right to make the claim. Perhaps we need to have a journeyman's program where new Masters are paired with a mentor and over the course of several years they learn the trade correctly and know what to do and how to act. I have run into way too many wannabes here that can talk a good game, but lack any real time experience or they are good at what I call being a parrot, they can mimic what others say so they sound knowledgeable and especially those that are new to the lifestyle fall prey to these predators. You can go into almost any chat-room on this website and can hear the horror stories from the slaves and subs about the substandard Masters/Doms they have run into or been abused by. Perhaps we should look at making a new class of Masters and Doms, called the part-timer, the ones who want to play weekend games but don't want to be a full-time one who accepts the responsibilities of what the title and position truly means in the lifestyle. This is something that has been under my skin for a very long time and is my one true peev in the lifestyle.
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