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Growing darker over time?
張貼於:2019年 6月 18日 8:13 pm
最近編輯過:2019年 8月 16日 3:06 pm
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Things change as we age.
Have you found your own perversion(s) growing darker, or widening? Or have they faded away over time?

If you want add some discussion as well as just clicking answer the poll question then please do - there's not enough discussion on these boards any more *s*

My kink needs have ....
... lessened over time
.... increased over time
.... gradually darkened as I progress on my kink journey
... darkened so much that they occasionally scare me
... faded away so much that now I rarely need physical fulfillment
... darkened AND become deeper, making me need more frequency
... other (please feel to clarify in the comments if you wish)
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Favourite cock sucking activities
張貼於:2014年 10月 4日 8:47 pm
最近編輯過:2018年 8月 13日 5:41 pm
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I love the textures and pleasures of cock in my mouth and filling my throat and I know many others do too. What is your favourite thing when orally worshipping cock?
the silky smoothness of shaved genitals
hairy genitals
swirling tongue around a swollen purple helmet
thoroughly licking a heavy ball sac before moving to the cock
engorged cock ramming straight down my throat with no foreplay
using my tongue to enjoy all the textures available to me
slow savouring of kissing the length of the cock
slurping the precum off the cockhead
I love it all - and more!
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"frilly" BDSM fiction ...
張貼於:2009年 7月 19日 9:44 pm
最近編輯過:2016年 11月 3日 9:46 pm
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It has been a heavy work week here, so my recent reading has been on the lighter side with enjoyment of some Black Lace frilly BDSM fiction.

"Cassandra's Chateau" by Frederica Alleyn is a delightful little read - easy on the brain power but with a credible plot and nicely arousing writing. If you enjoy the eroticism of punishment aswell as kinky sexual arousal then the 'Cassandra' books may tickle your fancy.

This particular episode in Cassandra's life is set amongst the chateaux of the Loire, not that we get much description of the scenery, and this seems a very natural habitat for the Baron - and the varied houseguests he invites to visit. The interactions of guests with servants - and each other - are titillating in different ways, and when a gauche young English girl is thrown into the heady mix then things really take off. Does Cassandra take this naive protg under her wing only to find herself displaced? Or can she manage to put aside her scruples and play to win, no matter what it takes? Innocence debauched, hidden motivations, sweet young love, perverted desires ... all this and more take root in these pages, blossoming in variegated ways throughout the tale.

And don't worry if you haven't read the Cassandra book prior to this one (Cassandra's Conflict). This title effectively stands alone even if you don't already know the characters.

So as I leave the Loire valley behind with a reluctant au revoir to Cassandra ...

... keep in mind, as Dr. Seuss says ...
^^ The more that you read,
the more things you will know.
The more that you learn,
the more places you'll go. ^^

~ juicyslut ~
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How to Be Kinky
張貼於:2009年 7月 5日 1:54 pm
最近編輯過:2016年 11月 3日 9:44 pm
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Last year (200 saw the publication of "How to be Kinky: A beginner's guide to BDSM", written by Morpheus. Along with the basic practicalities - such as what kink is, scene negotiation, selecting toys, subspace, Top drop, etc. - this excellent book also offers informative chapters on bringing kink into a vanilla relationship, roleplaying to add to the fun, and on making the shift from online to real life.

This book is written in a fun, easy-to-read style and all illustrated with Morph’s titillating real life photographs. (What fun to start a chapter and see a face one knows staring up from the page!) In addition to Morph’s own words and teaching there’s also real life examples from the many kinksters who shared their personal experiences with him as he prepared to write this book.

I've known Morpheus personally for a number of years now and he's very well respected, both in our local southwestern Ontario kink community and in the international community. He is wise beyond his years, and a patient and giving teacher. He is renowned for his intricate bondage work, and his beautiful bondage photography. Not long after I first met Morph he invited me to visit his place with a friend so I could teach him how to braid hair – all with the specific intent of incorporating it into his current interest (at that time) in micro-bondage. His attention to detail is delightful, and it manifests again and again throughout this book. Many of us hope this is just his first book in kink.

So if you're looking for a great book for beginners this could be the one for you.
"How to be Kinky: A beginner's guide to BDSM"
by Morpehus
- published by Green Candy Press
ISBN: 978-1-931160-63-6

And if you’re way past being a beginner read it anyway - it’s very well written and a lot of fun. Who knows … you may still learn something new! Plus you get to read all those personal insights from the kinksters who gave input to the author and generously shared their own thoughts and scene experiences.

And keep in mind, as Paxton Hood says ...
^^ Be as careful of the books you read, as of the company you keep, for your habits and character will be as much influenced by the former as the latter ^^

~ juicyslut ~
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Amarushataka: Erotic love poems from India
張貼於:2009年 6月 26日 10:36 pm
最近編輯過:2016年 11月 3日 9:44 pm
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An incredibly busy week with no time, alas, to read or blog! But at last the week closes and the weekend beckons ... with sun, friends, good conversation and good food.

And, of course, time to read, and soothe the soul!

I recently acquired a beautiful little volume of poetry - a translation of the "One Hundred Poems of Amaru" or, in the orginal Sanskrit, Amarushataka. This isn't a new book - other hands have caressed it and other eyes beheld it prior to mine. Perhaps other tongues have also relished reading its soft phrases aloud ... enjoying the feel of the plump words dropping from one's lips. Many years ago in her novel "Fugitive Pieces" Anne Michaels wrote ... 'Reading a poem in translationis like kissing a woman through a veil'. After reading that all those years ago I have always been somewhat conscious of it when reading poetry originally created in another language - but this little book of poems translated by Andrew Schelling is beautiful. Yes - the translation may have indeed created different poems than the originals, but these are heartfelt offerings; offerings bringing life back to these 1300-year old poems, and each erotic in their own right.

And I find myself wondering about them:
- are the 101 poems all about the same two lovers?
- if so, do they track the growth of ecstasy through a period of years?
- or is each poem an offering to a different love?

63
... no scowling, no biting the lip when her hair's gripped.
Even opens her limbs compliantly when I'm rough ...

34
... look at me, collapsed at your feet.
She winced, jerked her tearful eyes aside ...

75
...why treat your man with contempt
when he lies at your feet? ...

No matter which it is, these 101 little gems certainly run the gamut of erotic experience - from the shattering of shy innocence through the erotic tempest of argument and discord followed by the reconciliation of violent sex. Each one is delicious to read and savour.

And keep in mind, as Robert Frost says ...
^^ Poetry is a way of taking life by the throat ^^

~juicyslut~
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The Ethical Slut: insight and affirmation
張貼於:2009年 6月 20日 9:21 am
最近編輯過:2016年 11月 3日 9:42 pm
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Choosing a polyamorous road isn't always easy and doesn't always gain you popularity. Amazingly enough it can easily garner you criticism even here within the Lifestyle, as some people seem to think that anything falling outside their own personal terms of reference for kink is automatically wrong. Imagine that! But enough - this blog is to review books I've read, not for use as my personal soapbox! ~s~

I originally wrote this little review about five years ago, when I first read "The Ethical Slut" by Dossie Easton.
This book is a great resource for anyone struggling with their need/desire for multiple partners in their life. It gives wonderful insight into the checks and balances involved in making such a choice, and upholds the ethics and honesty necessary to live this lifestyle in a loving, healthy way. It also affirms choices already made by showing how one can live an open honest way within polyamory.

Now, five years later, I stand by that review. I've read other books about various aspects of polyamory since then, but none have given me the practical help I gained from reading "The Ethical Slut".

"Polyamory: the new love without limits" by Deborah Anapol was certainly interesting, and it referenced many other works which then went on to provide further reading of value. And "Spiritual Polyamory" by Mystic Life definitely spoke to my deepest being. But "Slut" gave me what I needed most and enabled me to balance my feelings and emotions when my choices threw me into conflict with those of a more traditional outlook. "Slut" helped me get my house in order and define my own personal ways of dealing with everything multiple relationships bring. (Well okay, maybe not absolutely everything as each bring their own challenges and changes! ~s~) This book helped me come to terms with my needs and desires seemingly forcing me into non-traditional choices, and its clarity allowed me to focus on bringing the integrity of my personal ethics and values into multiple relationships. It helped me settle within myself and gain my own comfort level, plus a new feeling of wholeness deep inside.

I suppose I have much residual fondness for this particular book because it greatly helped me become the one I am today.

And keep in mind, as James Bryce says ...
^^ The worth of a book is to be measured by what you can carry away from it ^^

~juicyslut~
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The delights of Black Lace
張貼於:2009年 6月 18日 9:11 pm
最近編輯過:2016年 11月 3日 9:42 pm
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I'm sure that many have read from the Black Lace imprint, but for those who haven't here's a little bit about this great selection. Black Lace is an English publisher which came to being almost 20 years ago, and it is erotica written by women for women. Although all are in the erotica genre there is an interesting mix within that, ranging through contemporary, historical, and even specialties such as paranormal. There is also a good selection of anthologies within the imprint, and if you've never read any Black Lace books then those anthologies can be a great place to start.

Some anthologies are purely short stories, some contain excerpts from full-length novels, and some are a mixture of both. When I first started reading them back in the early 90s I found the anthologies (named "Pandora's Box, Pandora's Box 2, etc. way back then) let me browse samplings from unfamiliar authors and get a taste for their style. That was very helpful in deciding which ones I was then willing to spend money on as I knew which authors appealed to me through having read those excerpts of their work. "A Brush with Officer Schroeder" left me eager to read more from Portia Da Costa, while the snippet from "Cassandra's Conflict" called to my own state of flux at that time and place and led me to read everything Frederica Alleyn had written about Cassandra's trials and tribulations.

If you are looking for more than just wham bam thank you Ma'am style erotica then you may well find the Black Lace books appealing. All the ones I have read are well written and offer up interesting stories along with their erotic settings. For me they tease and please my brain aswell as sometimes causing other reactions. They do not all delve into aspects of kink however - after all, erotica is so subjective. But there are plenty that do dip into the BDSM world and more, so go out and try some next time you want a good erotic fiction book.

And keep in mind, as Joseph Brodsky says ...
^^ There are worse crimes than burning books. One of them is not reading them.^^

~juicyslut~
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"Captive" audience?
張貼於:2009年 6月 16日 9:54 pm
最近編輯過:2012年 9月 13日 9:48 pm
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At different times and places over the years I often heard mention of the series of "Captive" novels written by Richard Manton. This year my Master placed a thick omnibus, consisting of three volumes of The Captive, into my hands for me to read - and what a disappointment!

Over time I think I must have built an expectation - perhaps thinking that luxuriant words and erotic scenes would pour off the pages to complement the lush tropical setting of these stories - but it was not to be. I found the tales to be drab, repetitive and - horror of horrors - downright boring! Is it because I enjoy variety in my sadism? Is it because I think there's more to the female anatomy than just one's derriere? Is it because I find interaction and mental play between two people to be stimulating? Perhaps so and, sad to say, that stimulation - in fact stimulation of almost any kind - is sadly lacking in Manton's writing.

To my eye and mind every episode read as if Richard Manton has only one single sadistic scene in his head and he regurgitates that single item again and again, page after page. He doesn't even seem to try to dress it up or disguise it as anything else, merely indulges himself in his obsessive repetition of punishing the bottoms of waif-like creatures who never engage one's imagination. Perhaps because they are more "non-characters" in that they never seem to participate in the scenes he tries to set forth. Arse after arse laid bare (or clothed) before us - but in such lacklustre ways that they are never active on the page and might aswell be sacks of potatoes, his repeated descriptions so trite as to be meaningless. It's like peering down the wrong end of a telescope at just one single tiny thing while ignoring the myriad possibilities flitting by. Where is the luscious tit flesh? What about rounded bellies and plump tender arms? Or soft lips and cheeks waiting to be bruised by cruel fingers and teeth? Manton has a schoolboy like obsession with the bum - and not even an imaginative obsession at that!

Discounting the repetitive bums on display I must say that the descriptions of the beatings and punishments are also totally unreal. Not unbelievable in the level of sadsim but, to me at least, totally unbelievable in their realism. Don't get me wrong - I can get off on sadism yes, but the true enjoyment of an erotic novel for me is when it is believable enough that I can project my own tender flesh into the described scenario, perhaps imagining what that discipline or harsh sexual use would feel like in person. And in that department these tales sadly fall short. In fact I would go so far as to say it would not surprise me one iota to find that Richard Manton is actually a wannabe and has never had the sadistic pleasure of actually applying cane to flesh in the flesh, as it were.

I read a lot, in many different genres - both for personal pleasure and for my work - and it isn't often that I don't finish a book even if I dislike it. But this marathon of monotonous uninteresting prose did me in, and I actually ended up skimming through the last third of the book. I struggled properly through the first two volumes, thinking that it must get better and couldn't possibly just be more of the same old same old, but I was wrong - it was!

So then:
- If you have a bum cheek obsession and want to repeatedly read about them being caned/whipped to levels beyond reality then perhaps you might enjoy one of the Captive books. But you'll need to also enjoy stilted writing that never allows the erotic to flower on the page.
- and if you've read one of the Captive books and you're thinking maybe you should try another because they can't possible all be that stultifying ... don't waste your money or your time - they are!

Mason Colley says
^^ Reading gives us somewhere to go when you have to stay where you are ^^ ...

... but in the case of Mantons Captive series you are definitely better off staying where you are and not going there!

~juicyslut~
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novels with a BDSM twist: Part I
張貼於:2009年 6月 14日 7:26 pm
最近編輯過:2012年 9月 12日 8:01 pm
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If you are looking for a BDSM-type novel that isn't just about sex and kink, then try these two by Laura Reese:
- "Topping from Below"
- "Panic Snap"

Both of these are erotic thrillers with more than just a focus on the kink or sex. In my personal opinion "Panic Snap" wasn't as good as the first of Reese's novels, but they're both enjoyable if you like kink with your murders ... or a little mystery with your kink! They both explore sexual obsession and the world of SM, effectively combining those themes with murder/mystery.

To be honest I think one of the biggest turn-ons that kept me interested was the fact that the mystery side was well written enough to keep interest without the kink - which was an added bonus.

And keep in mind, as Thomas Fuller says ...
^^ A book that is shut is but a block ^^

~juicyslut~
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"starter" BDSM non-fiction
張貼於:2009年 6月 13日 1:29 pm
最近編輯過:2012年 9月 12日 7:59 pm
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There are many different books to choose from to learn about BDSM, from the straightforward practicalities up to the psychological dimensions, each bringing its own viewpoint to the mix. Some are aimed at specific topics, and some at specific roles - but they can all add to our understanding and outlook on the Lifestyle.

When asked by newbies what is a good starter to read, my recommendation is usually to tandem "The bottoming book" and "The Topping Book" by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt/Janet Hardy. My own personal copies are the older version, but there are newer issues available under the titles "The New ..." - hence my listing the co-author as Catherine Liszt or Janet Hardy, depending on which version you purchase.

I have occasionally been asked if there's anything you can give a family member or friend to read if you have just come out to them, or are about to do so, regarding your lifestyle choices. The same authors (Dossie and Catherine) have also written "When someone you love is kinky" and it puts things in understandable terms and, I personally feel, gives a good frame of reference.

Another good practical starter book for your journey into BDSM can be "Screw the roses, send me the thorns" by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon. It's a great guide to many different aspects, and walks you through the basics in a very practical way - starting with learning the lingo, etc. It also covers practical techniques - and even has pictures. ~s~ Even if you're well-experienced I think this book has value as it can introduce some new possibilities ... after all, we never stop learning.

And keep in mind, as Jim Rohn says ...
^^ the book you don't read can't help ^^

~juicyslut~
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