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I thought this was normal

Bouncing around

Back at this.
Posted:Sep 4, 2015 6:09 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2016 2:01 pm
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Sorry folks, I was taken away for a while. No, the mother ship didn't come for me. I was actually taken over by life and work. Now I have returned. For better or worse depending on how you like my writing and views on life. I will endeavor to bring humor and understanding to the entire universe. I will find out if I am just swimming with the tide or getting sucked under by the rip tide.
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Roles
Posted:Apr 30, 2014 5:03 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2015 9:57 am
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Today I was pondering the different roles that we all play. All this thinking is really cutting into my solitaire playing so I thought if I put it here I would be able to get back to important stuff. As a Dom the role that I perceive myself to be is as an Alpha male. That is the role I am most comfortable in and what excites me sexually. I have said in the past that the communication I have with my sub is a favorite form of foreplay. When talking with them about what role they like to play I have found that no two are really at all similar. Wow, Chris , you figured that out? Yep. but I had help. Luckily I have had relations with very open people who aren't ashamed to discus what they enjoy. I even discus things with people here, and greatly enjoy it along with the comments that are given to me here. Yeah, I know the whole IM thing, chat rooms (which I still haven't quite figured out ), I should include myself in them. Anyway, back to the topic at hand. The roles that I particularly like from a sub are the ones that take the most imagination, not so much a willing slave who just succumbs to whatever I say. The independent woman who envelopes herself in the eroticism of the submission. I like when a sub submits but not fully. A sub that struggles and doesn't just submit without both of you feeling the power of the moment. The sensuality of her submission can keep us on edge for hours.
I am not very big on the Daddy/ Dom role. It makes me uncomfortable. I can see why others would enjoy it, but I want a partner who is a woman. A grown up who uses her mind as a carnal path into the erotic. I also enjoy the slave role for a sub but I just can't wrap my head around a 24/7 lifestyle. I like to sometimes just leave everything behind and just be people, (yup, even leave behind the sex for a bit). I most like when we both are comfortable with our respective roles. I know that she wants to submit and will, but that tug of wills is an aphrodisiac by itself. The point where I can stand her in place and run my hands around her face and neck, right after the submission, when she trembles slightly as I cup her face in my hand. That is my role.
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Humiliation
Posted:Apr 22, 2014 2:32 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2015 6:59 pm
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I was asked the other day what my thoughts were on the humiliation of subs by Doms and how I feel about it. It is something that I have to say turns my wheels in certain ways. I like the thought of parading my sub out in public in whatever I decide to dress her in. I'm a big fan of light summer dresses that give the most access. No underwear ofcouse except thigh highs, and nipple rings. I know, but I like thigh highs just like most men and women. They are popular for a reason. It is a thrill to be able to force my sub to display herself for my enjoyment. I REALLY like to go for hikes here in the Colorado mountains. As we hike along I strip off her clothes and attach wrist cuffs, collar and leash, ankle cuffs. Until she is nude and vulnerable in the open air for all to see.
In a more urban setting I like the thought of displaying her in her collar as we sit in a coffee shop or bar. or a leather vest and skirt. I can run my hands where ever I want. I had one sub that would almost, and did , beg for me to do this to her. I was more than happy to do this. Surprised?
BUT while we both found this to be an exciting thing to do in public, I don't share my subs. While the thrill is there that anything could happen, we both know nothing will. I think it is the same as public sex without have actual sex in front of innocent bystanders. I have a hard time sometimes with the humiliation aspect of it because I respect and cherish my subs. When is it going too far? I'm just saying as a Dom, that while the idea thrills both of us, I like to keep it lighter than outright public humiliation and groveling at my feet on the 16th street mall. In private the aspect is much more controlled and less restrictive. (Yes, that's a pun.) that to me is role play, talking dirty and part of foreplay. Anyway those are my thoughts on the subject. I would love to hear from the ladies about their perspective.
And thank you to all of you who have left comments.
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Dishonest people
Posted:Apr 20, 2014 11:14 am
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2015 6:56 pm
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As I have said before I despise dishonest people. I do my best to be honest and trustworthy. I don't belittle people for no reason. I try REALLY hard to be tactful, ( thats the hard one ). I was reading hotnhungry4it's blog about her going off in the gym on some self centered girls and could only think that I have done the same thing many times. I still believe that people are inherently good when they are not under the influence of peer pressure or a lack of self restraint. People are deceitful for many reasons. They want to be different from who they perceive themselves to be. They want to be different from who they are, better, stronger, taller. They want something that they don't have, money, popularity, sex, or power.
I am new to the internet dating deal.It seems to me that there is a whole bunch of things that I don't know but everyone else is in on. A set of rules that I didn't know and am trying to catch up on. If someone ends me an email or hotlists me. It does happen! Really! I think it is rude not to answer. The reverse is also true but I accept that if you don't answer it means you don't want to communicate. Just let me know one way or the other.
Now for the real reason I am writing this. There seems to be a haven in Texas that is full of 30 year old women who are looking for a good master for life. They don't smoke, drink or do drugs. They are all willing to relocate within the hour just for me. That is not hard to believe. We always match on our love settings, What the fuck are those!!!! I like dogs , but I didn't know there was one matching me with partners on this site. All of these women will do my domestic chores with a happy smile. They will serve me sexually while vacuuming the house, not a bad thing in my opinion. Is there a drought of men in Texas that I don't know about? Was there a plague? Erectile dysfunction is rampant there? Well that's true.
Invariably they turn out to be from Africa not Texas, which I know, it's kind of the same place. They just need me to send them money (who knew?) to get them to me. I can drive to Texas in half a day! I can bring truckloads back here! And I will to have someone do my housework naked. I don't even do my house work naked. Sorry ladies.
Anyway, I will still send an email thanking the women who hotlist me. If you email me I will answer as soon as I can. I will feel really handsome, sexy and rich when I receive email. I will be honest and forthright with you. I will not lose my faith in humanity. I will keep collecting pen pals, ( do they still call them that? ).I now have 35 women who only want to service me while dusting things that don't need dusting. This is great for my self confidence. I also like to think it keeps them out of trouble if all of these women are writing to me.
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Women and what I love about them.
Posted:Apr 18, 2014 10:53 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2015 6:53 pm
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I know, your saying whats not to love right? But there are special things that I adore about women and in the interest of being selfish (It's my blog after all ), I'm going to list the specific things that tweak my strings. Braids, almost any braids that she wears, except for the little girl braids, I don't like those. Hats, when she wears a feminine hat. Ok , most any hat but feminine beach hats or small brimmed summer hats. Long hair and when she lets me wash and dry her hair, Because then I can braid it,(See how that works?). Any time she is in bare feet and she is on her tip toes. The back of her knees. The small of her back where the dimples are.eyes that crinkle when she smiles, like Ellen Barkin. The back of her neck is one of my favorite places to spend my spare time.I absolutely love the place on her stomach right next to her hips. Under her arms when she is holding her arms above her head, but just above her rib cage. Her collar bones (either side , doesn't matter) and the little hollow bellow her throat.
I love when she stands on her tip toes for ANY reason, but its best when she does it to kiss me and in bare feet, and no I'm not a foot guy in particular. I love when she lets me hold the door for her or fix any damn thing. There is nothing that makes me feel more masculine and sexy. When she wears an outfit that she knows turns me on, and smiles that woman smile. You know the one , where she and you are both thinking that its going to be a long and teasing night buster, but we are both being teased by her wearing it. Swimming!!!! Also I ALWAYS make passes at women who wear glasses. I had an old girlfriend who would wear them just to let me know she was horny. A kind of secret signal. It drove me wild.
When she dances and there is only the music in her head. The fine hair on her arms and stomach, ya gutta love them! Shoulders, don't let me forget those! I LOVE shoulders! When she scooches over to sit next to me in the truck when she has plenty of room anyway. When we're walking down the street and she grabs my arm through hers and leans her head on my shoulder. The way she smells in the sun and naked. The way she smells anytime! I have worked with women on ranches that smelled terrific after working on horseback all day. When she bites her lower lip after I was fondling her on the sly in public.
I could go on for a long time, and I will come to think of it, but not right now. I will add more as I like or as I if I am asked to do so.I have left out a veritable book but as is known I'm not the best typist going. So thank you ladies for being.... Well, you.
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Relationships, by request
Posted:Apr 15, 2014 5:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2015 6:50 pm
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I can only go by the experiences that I have had and those I have had the relationship with, so bear with me. In the old days when I started finding out what I liked, before phones took pictures, nobody really talked about sex. I was very lucky in my first sexual relationship. She wanted to talk about sex even after we had it. This was a relief for me, I love to talk about sex with my partners. I had always though that it would be better if we did talk about it. Also I always thought it was a great way to build up to the actual act. Foreplay by verbal communication!!! A grand idea and I was the first person EVER to think of it. You can thank me now. It really was a revelation. If you wanted a better relationship and better sex then you COULD talk about it. Ahhh the years
Anyway, I also had NO idea what BDSM was. Thankfully she did, and because we could , and did, talk about likes and dislikes, (and with a fair amount of willing practice ) ,I had as great a time finding out that I was dominant as she did finding out she was submissive. It was the best sex EVER! It also taught me that trust was paramount in any relationship.If you have read my previous posts you know I despise bullies and phonies. Well folks this is why. Yes, I am a Dom. Yes I like to control my partner. Yes I like to spank and bite and.... well you all know what we Doms do best. If you can't communicate honestly and talk about what is desired then there is no trust built. Without the trust there is no real communication. Also if you break someones trust you spoil that person for themselves and everyone else because you wanted to to think only of yourself. Assholes.
I am a Dom. I am proud to be a Dom. I wish as a Dom I could type faster and better. I also adore women. They are hands down (pun intended ) the best thing in the world. I started this on relationships and that ship drifted a bit, sorry.To put paid on this post. A good relationship is a combination of communication and honesty. Remember also that a good relationship means more sex. (thats the part I like).So thank you ladies from the bottom of my heart. (Hand?) Next time I will ramble about what I do adore about women.
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My background
Posted:Apr 14, 2014 7:42 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2015 6:47 pm
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Ok, a little about my background.I was a cowboy for 20 odd years and still work ranches sometimes for old bosses and friends. I was a logger, underwater demolition diver, commercial fisherman in Alaska, I've been a cop,a bouncer in 17 different bars around the country, a golden gloves boxer, heavy equipment operator and I worked as a suit for a while. Yes I was the boss and did well at the job. I have done just about every job that you wanted to do as a growing up. (Although I don't think I have grow up just yet, give me around 20 more years), I am well educated. I can even hold a discussion in public. I also HATE bullies, fakes, phonies, liars, thieves and people who destroy anything for fun! In Montana we call those people grizzly bait. I'm glad for anyone that reads this and gives me constructive criticism.
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Hello
Posted:Apr 14, 2014 11:06 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2014 6:35 am
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I wanted to start this blog for a variety of resons. First because I want to be able to express myself better to people here and in the lifestyle. I would like to be more in the Denver BDSM community, but I seem to have trouble finding out where the hell it is. Second becuase I want to do what eveyone eslse with a blog does and vent. I have never learned to type well ( reads as never ) and I dislike bad punctuation and grammer. Here I can put my thoughts in order. I will inject humor, ( no pathos though ) things I like, what turns my wheels that particular day and random thoughts because my brain works A LOT faster than my fingers. I am not going to choose a specific forum because my mind won't be limited to one specific topic, also I HATE to be pidgeon holed by anyone.
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