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Welcome to my blog!

I just added a lot of new photos
Posted:Oct 10, 2023 10:03 am
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I would love to her some feedback on my new photos
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Reasons I enjoy Strap On Sex
Posted:May 10, 2023 8:23 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2023 9:58 am
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1) It feels very controlling and subservient to Her needs and desires. She is the penetrator, he is the penetrated.
2) Stretching my anus feels amazing especially with a dildo that widens and narrows.
3) Pre-play rinsing feels good, puts pressure on my prostate and feeling clean feels good - nothing fecal to leak out.
4) Allows for dildo worship on Her including ATM if She is so inclined. Realistic dildos heighten this sensation.
5) I'm straight and have no romantic interest in men but it's interesting to simulate and feel what a penis feels like in my ass and in my mouth. I'm curious and not a homophobe.
6) Vigorous pounding puts amazing pressure and stimulation on Her clit.
7) She has the option to do it clothed, naked or anything in between.
It is very intimate and personal and it's erotic to watch.
9) Being able to forcefully push out with no anxiety creates a new sensation to incorporate into the action.
10) It allows Her to feel like She has a penis and for him to feel like he has a vagina; total power and role reversal.
11) Both people are capable of orgasm from the sensations alone.
12) Good prelude to fisting.
13) Can stimulate the 2nd sphincter inside at the end of the rectum.
14) It is sexy and erotic to gaze at a Woman wearing a strap on.
15) She does all the work ...
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Spaceman Scott goes on a journey to Planet Domme
Posted:Oct 11, 2021 8:46 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2022 5:43 pm
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Virtually everyone with enough interest in sex eventually becomes curious enough about BDSM to explore it in some fashion; from watching porn actors engaged in your D/s fantasy to actually engaging in your fantasy yourself. Just like your willingness/ability to engage in BDSM is a spectrum, so is your personal description of BDSM. Some people think fellatio and cunnilingus are edgy kinky activities, others have been sucking cock and eating pussy since they were teenagers and yet others think oral sex is an abomination onto God. Let's leave those people out of the conversation that I would like to have with you right now; specifically my journey into BDSM. Our space ship is leaving, would you like to come along with me?

Regular vanilla sex is great and remains a big part of my sex life. But a steady diet of nothing but vanilla sex (aka the first 30 years of my life) is something I could never go back to now - wouldn't want to - just couldn't do it. It's like after the first time you have strap on sex, you ain't never gonna put the toothpaste back in that tube. And honestly, strap on sex between consenting adults is stimulating and healthy for your body and mind. There is nothing wrong with being turned on by the thought of it and nothing wrong with seeking it. Who cares what your boring constipated friends/family/coworkers think? Deep down they are actually jealous that you can engage with your erotic fantasies and they can't. Mixing Vanilla sex with Spicy sex is the only sandwich I'm going to be eating from now on. And I'm happy to make it for Her in my French Maid outfit with my jeweled butt plug in !!

I got married the first time at 29 with a woman I was not compatible with and months later we were divorced. The first trip into the "minefield" often has casualties and even though I was almost thirty, I was still very dumb when I look back. All little head, no big head. I was selfish and clueless about being a good husband. Afterward I was depressed, lonely and horny. But full to the brim with ideas and fantasies, which have always kept me in cardio and expanded my mind and my world. One day in a gas station magazine rack I found my first swinger magazine, full of personal ads - as more toothpaste got inexorably squeezed from the tube. I was immediately drawn to the Dominatrix personals because the Women looked incredibly provocative and seductive. The best ones had graphic descriptions of what they were into - strap on (this is way before the term peg) spanking - bondage - golden showers. I had never experienced any of this and honestly wasn't even ready for most of it, but I now knew who my people were. This was (and still is) EXCITING AF. I slowly began to realize that most of what turned me on (not illegal, done by consenting adults) is actually pretty normal and maybe even good for me. I saw a personal ad that featured a Woman sitting on a couch in stiletto heels, panties and bustier and I began sending Her letters and presents. She was 22 years older than me and lived in Hastings MI, not too far away. After many exchanged letters, we began talking on the phone and eventually meeting at the Kalamazoo Red Roof Inn. This was pre-internet and pre-cellphone and coordinating meetings was challenging to say the least. I was completely dumb about how to behave. This was years before I started shaving my pubic hair as a show of respect and didn't understand anything about general protocol and manners around a Domme, but my fantasies about what might happen kept me hard a lot. I was completely terrified on our first meeting, but She liked me and the first meeting led to more. I was always to be showered, nude and on my knees with the door open and a chilled bottle of Chardonnay on the night stand. I was clueless but completely compliant to whatever She wanted to do; spank me, have me worship Her breasts and feet, flog me or just chat while having a glass of wine. She often tied me face up spread eagle on the bed, tied up my cock and balls with a nylon stocking and then flogged and smacked my hard coc Then while sitting on my face She would take a vibrator and force me to quickly cum into Her hand and kept pressing the vibe to my cock after cumming. I was unaware how painful and uncomfortable that was until that moment. She would then rub my cum in my face. I was in heaven but living in two universes and scared that my secret would get out. Eventually the subject of strap on sex came up which was terrifying and electrifying at the same time. I purchased a cheesy strap on, mail order from the Adam and Eve catalog, for with a mailed form and check and delivered to my PO box that I had opened since I was currently living with my parents. It was the only one in the catalog, latex panties with a smallish dildo molded into the front. I had been playing with my ass for many years but that was nothing like I was about to experience. She put two pillows under me and tied me face down, spread eagle on the bed, my hard cock pressed firmly into the pillows. She donned Her strap on, crawled onto the bed and mounted me missionary style. We used Lubriderm for lube, I'm sure it hurt but I didn't care, though I almost shit my pants on the way home that night. I learned the hard (LO way about the necessity of an enema before hand, and maybe She did too. It was probably messy but I don't remember that and it didn't ruin the experience. She loved it and let me worship Her pussy afterward. It might have been Her first time too, I didn't have the courage to as I got married for the second time a few years later and I lost touch with Mistress Alexandra. My enjoyment of strap on sex and BDSM would go into hibernation for many years...

7 years later, marriage Number 2 (apropos name...) fell apart and I found myself in front of a judge once again, about to rejoin the singles universe. My 2nd wife was super smart (University of Chicago) hard working, nice body with HUGE boobs, amazing fun to talk to... and a complete prude. She thought that having sex doggy style was degrading and that only pedophiles asked their wives to shave/trim their pubic hair. I loved her and her body and was heartbroken to see our marriage break up, but also knew that my next serious relationship would NOT be a vanilla one. And so it wasn't. Next summer at an outdoor concert on an island in a river, I met a pretty nurse. She was bisexual, open minded and a crazy... (sometimes a LOT crazy) But she was super fun to be around and loved to travel and do things. And she LOVED sex. We visited swing clubs, explored her submissive curiosities and had several threesomes. I had read about swing clubs and had even been to one in Dayton solo before. (which was basically an exercise in going home alone and masturbating....) Except this time I got to take my pretty, kinky, crazy gf with me and we had a lot of fun. We had sex together in a huge oversized bed with several couples doing the same thing while people watched, offered commentary and enjoyed the show. We swapped partners with couples we met there and had sex side by side on the same bed, while holding hands and rubbing each other. She got triple penetrated one night which had been a fantasy for both of us and she LOVED it. And I got to be the Dom for the first time; spanking - flogging - hot wax - nipple clamps... all pretty tame stuff, but new and exciting for me. She was bi and we had several threesomes, MFM & FMF, my first but not hers. One memorable night in Chicago at the Four Seasons we got a bi to enjoy the evening with us along with a nice bottle of wine and a jay. It was and still is an indelible memory in my frontal cortex hard drive. The toothpaste was really flowing now... Might have to go buy a new tube! But all good things must come to an end and just like buying a boat, the two best days of our relationship were the day she moved in with me and the day she moved out. Back to a single life of masturbation. Later, after many years we reconnected thru FB which was very sweet and a chance to remember the good times. And I still have all the memories (and a few pics!!!)

6 years later found me with the love of my life and having tons of really connected sex, both vanilla and spicy. I was happy and in love and in a quixotic attempt to create a blended family with her two boys from two different ex'es, decided to take the plunge and walk down the aisle (plank) again. I won't bore you with the details but they involved things like: bath salts being smoked in my house, dropping out of HS, a bowling ball thrown thru a teachers car window, refusing to get a job, her psycho vindictive ex and police visits. I had read about "night tremors" - waking up from a horrible nightmare, sweaty with your heart pounding, but had never experienced them myself until now. We stopped talking, having sex and grew apart in more ways than several. One day as I was just about to leave the country for a week for work, she served me with divorce papers that were filed in her hometown over 0 miles away. She wanted half my assets, most of which were inherited from my long deceased father and insisted on having a trial. She went into my email account and printed out receipts for sex toys that I had purchased after she left and then introduced them as evidence to humiliate and discredit me as a husband in front of the everyone in the courtroom. I was in a downward spiral, still in love with her and did an abysmal job of defending myself. I marvel today that I am even still here, but it occurred to me that she might take glee in my suicide.

I have been through a lot of trauma in the last several years, but I have a work family, a friends family, a not for profit volunteer community family, a Facebook family and an online sex community family that has helped keep me on two feet. My parents are both passed and I am unfortunately now estranged from my only older sibling who doesn't understand me and lives far away, and from my adult who also lives far away. Our relationship well was poisoned by ex Number 1 and she doesn't yet understand that and may never, and honestly I have done a pretty lousy job of defending myself to her. I'm very non-confrontational and needed to quietly step away from my immediate family for my own sanity but am open to rapprochement in the future. I have many cousins from both sides of my family who live near me, who I see often and love dearly; an intermediate family with lots of shared family experience. My Mom passed away in 2018 after slowly experiencing her quality of life dwindle to nothing which was very painful to watch. My cat passed away in July 2021 and I am pet less for the first time in my adult life. Ironically the pandemic has allowed me the space to reorganize my life without the everyday distractions of life. I have always been a very curious person and easily distracted and my life had really piled up and was in need of serious work and organization and maybe even a dumpster. I come from a long line of artists - painters mostly, and I get very easily attached to things that I like including artwork, family memorabilia, military collectables, posters, photographs, event tickets and the like. I have over 20 house plants, from tiny to gargantuan, some of which I have had since the 80's. When my Mom passed, disposing of all her stuff was crazy, time consuming, distracting, fun, painful and a lot of it ended up at my house. But... since March of 2020 I have: re-roofed my house, lost and kept off 30 lbs, become a volunteer for an organization I really believe in, done substantial landscape/painting/carpentry restoration of my house, ran several ads on Craigslist in the Free section and decluttered some bulky items quickly, taken several road trips in my RV, transformed the inside of my house from an edition of Hoarders to Architectural Digest, grew a ponytail again and then cut it off and became fully vaccinated including a 3rd booster last wee I feel as good as I've ever felt (left hip notwithstanding...) and am having some of the most interesting and satisfying sex of my life, even if it is mostly solo... The final third of my life has begun and even though I don't look like the man I was at 30, when my journey to Planet Domme began, I'm much wiser, more self assured, financially secure, have lots of free time, (and less hair) and am in good health. I still have an abundance of creative energy to apply to: myself, my partner, (if and when I get one) my ongoing exploration of what is sexually pleasurable, my desire to travel and learn about other people and places and my hobby pursuits - museums, photography, history and aviation. RAWR !!!!!

I started down that slippery slope of sexual curiosity about BDSM - Bondage - Domination - Sado - Masochism, many years (decades actually) ago. I have explored several sub roles - sissy - cross dresser - chastity - pain slut - piss - anal slut - and have enjoyed them all. Mostly I am a kind and thoughtful exhibitionist who enjoys pleasing, being generous and venturing to the Extreme. During this time I have met a wide variety of Dominant women from soft to scary, from skilled to clumsy. Some of them really enjoyed inflicting pain and discomfort on men, which some submissive masochistic men really crave. (I'm not a masochist but some women are worth enduring some pain) Some enjoy watching two or more sub men engage in gay sex acts, even "against" their will. Some get off on control; tie a man up, blindfold him, place a gag in his mouth, chastity cage on his cock and a plug in his ass. Some get off on tease and denial; to dress slutty provocative and have a man beg. Some of them flat out hate men (often for good reasons) and relish in their ability to get back at them. Some of the most relaxed and capable Domme's I have been with were lesbian and capable of being aloof and above the emotional dynamics; someone who enjoyed toying with a submissive mans sexual inclinations, doling out bits of pleasure and being compensated for it. IMHO the best Dommes are those that came at BDSM initially as a submissive who had a big interest in sex, that evolved into becoming a ProDomme. Someone who was attracted to sex work for the thrill and the and realized over time that Her heart and Her head were more closely aligned with being Dominant. They retain the softer side of the submissive - empathy, care, giving - while realizing that being naturally and expectedly in control of what happens is more satisfying and less likely to be awkward or even dangerous. And She can make it Her well compensated profession if She chooses and puts in the hard wor

I have been fortunate over the years to have been introduced to a mouthwatering buffet of erotic and exotic activities from a variety of sources; Swinger Magazines - where I met my first Mistress; Craigs List - where I met some everyday women who responded to my posts for strap on enthusiasts; Session Girls - where I met Demonika, a female bodybuilder Mistress; Adult Friend Finder - where I met my last wife; ALT & FetLife- where I post personal erotic content and have met several friends, both men and women, and Back Page - where fetish providers use to post ads listing what they would and wouldn't do, until the site was shut down in 20. Despite the "Prude Police" here in the US, the internet remains the place to find and chat with interesting, intelligent and independent SW, especially Twitter and where you can have brief but fun interactions with Ladies of the Night. And many sites have picked up right where Back Page left off including Skip The Games, Eros and Erotic Monkey. Many web host countries around the world see these sites as being more helpful to sex workers than harmful. (because these countries weren't founded by Puritans!!) They are places sex workers can have a community to help keep each other safe and sane. I also have seen first hand the prejudice towards the SW community and have felt the cold stare of judgment about my perceived lack of morality or couth, from both men and women, over my willingness to hire sex workers. I have had some "interesting" moments in the hobby, even a few scary ones. It's not for the faint of heart. But I have also met some amazing, intelligent, creative and kinky female sex workers who are part of the history of my sex life. They have helped me understand who I am and have provided me with some amazing experiences and memories. But bringing up my interest in sex workers can be polarizing, especially to women. I have stopped seeing SW at various points in my life, during relationships and marriages and also used them for fun in my relationships. I have found sex workers to serve an interesting and important part in my life. I don't see it as any different than hiring a masseuse to my body. She's using parts of her body to make my body experience pleasure and in return she is compensated. It's legal or decriminalized in most of the world including Nevada, Canada, Mexico, Iceland, Australia and all of Europe and South America. Legalizing it allows it to be out in the open, regulated and less likely to be exploitive of women. If reading this turns you off or makes you angry, that's your clue that we are probably not compatible. I realize that a lot of what's written here and on my profile looks like bragging and some of it probably is, though as they say - ain't bragging if it's true. I've been through a lot lately and writing some personal history here has been surprisingly cathartic. I hope you get a chance to look at my photos and if you are a paying member, check out my videos. All this posted visual content feeds my exhibitionistic tendencies, it warms my heart and stirs my mind. And as I look back, I'm still the wide eyed, curious, horny boy I was at ...
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Feel free to give me a good k ick in the balls, ScottFree2018
Posted:Sep 16, 2021 9:07 am
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2022 9:23 am
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Some Shakespeare to enlighten your day!
Posted:Oct 21, 2018 7:48 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2024 2:7 am
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Have more than thou showest,
Speak less than thou knowest,
Lend less than thou owest,
Ride more than thou goest,
Learn more than thou trowest,
Set less than thou throwest;
Leave thy drink and thy ,
And keep in-a-door,
And thou shalt have more
Than two tens to a score.
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