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A friend wrote this. Doms need to read this.
Posted:Aug 28, 2015 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2015 11:31 pm
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I suggest you Doms read this. Real Daddies would understand. There's so much more to it than kinky fucking with a little/Babygirl. We're different than subs... this brought tears because it might possibly be why I got abandoned...

Think you want a little girl?
So you are a Dom and you come across a sub who catches your interest. You find that she is also a little. You don’t know exactly what that means…But you’re interested, and so you find out.
At first you think it’s really cute. She likes Hello Kitty…teddy bears. No big deal. She likes sparkly things and gets excited about simple pleasures.
She likes to color pictures….says it makes her happy and relieves stress.
OK…
You love that when you are with her, she sees the world with the same excitement that a has. She never outgrew that wonder. It makes you feel more joyful….You see life in a different way.
But you notice that she often interrupts you when you are talking….not because she means to…. not because she is on the same subject you are and wants to add to the discussion…. but because she saw a deer in the woods and excitedly wants to point it out to you.
Now it’s not so cute, but a bit annoying. She understands. She tries hard to be better, but it’s really hard….because that part of her is not big.
Life goes on and you grow closer… You thought you realized what a big responsibility it is being a Daddy Dom to a little, but you really didn’t.
A Dom has a lot of responsibility to their submissive. Being a Daddy Dom to a little has even more. A little is vulnerable in a way that you can never comprehend fully until you’re one, or with one who loves and trusts you.
You didn’t really want that much responsibility. You find it overwhelming and shut down. You don’t talk about it because you don’t want to hurt your little.
But she feels it. A little is a tuned in radar to their Daddy. They know instinctively when something is not right.
At night you play games and then turn away and go to sleep. She hugs her teddy bear tight to not feel so alone and scared.
You look over and see this, and it turns you off even more. You don’t understand this, as you used to find it sweet and endearing. You gave her the bears…. but now you ask her what she gets out of it.
She feels the message in the question. It stings. But she tells you that it’s like when you cuddle a puppy….that’s what she gets out of it.
She sees the glimmer of understanding in your eyes and hopes….it’s so hard to show people who you really are, and face being judged. She gave you everything that she is. Please don’t judge her harshly.
And then the day comes where you have a fight and you tell her that your place is not going to be filled with sparkles and polka dots. Her mind wonders where the polka dots came from? But it hurts. He thinks you’re silly and stupid and have no taste. At least that’s what her heart hears.
Then you call her a . And not in a good way. She’s angry…. but the anger comes from hurt. She knows that she is childlike….but she thought you knew what an amazing woman and sexual being she is also. But you don’t.
You saw her as amusing. Something that made you feel good, because that is something littles are great at…..But, you wanted easy.
Real life shows up for everybody. Sometimes real life for littles ( ok not sometimes….most of the time ) is scary. When she is scared, she turns to you. She shows you all of her vulnerability….Her fears… Her tears….
You feel even more overwhelmed…. you feel responsible for her well being. In a way you are. But mostly she just needs you to be there. To hold her hand, and make her feel safe.
She has taken care of herself for a long time. She has had to be big…to be strong. But she trusted you enough to let down that shield, and believed you when you said you would always take care of her.
She knows that she is a lot. She knows that she is needy. She tries hard to be less little.
She wonders how all the things that you said you loved about her in the beginning, are the things that cause you to not want to touch her now.
She has always thought she was too much. She always felt different. She has been told that the things she loves are for and she should just grow up.
When you call her a , or tell her that she can’t be a parental figure to your because she is a little…. it cuts right down to her core.
A little is very sensitive. They don’t have a thick skin, even if they pretend to the world that they do.
She will probably never forget your words.
She will do anything to make you happy. Turn herself inside out.
You cut her off sexually. You don’t touch her. You don’t let her please you.
You leave her alone more and more.
Want to see a little unravel? That’s the formula
Want to keep your little happy? Just love them. If you are ever a Daddy Dom lucky enough to have a little who wants to be yours, hold on and don’t let go.
Don’t just read some blogs and posts on Fet Life and think you’re ready and done. More than anything else, a relationship with a little is just that…. a relationship.
It takes work. Hard work and lots of it.
Like any relationship. So let me say that again. Hard work and lots of it.
The rewards are great.
But it’s not going to be a kinky romance novel every day of the week….. In fact, most of the time it won’t be. We live in the real world after all.
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A perfect definition of a Daddy Dom
Posted:Jun 11, 2015 3:19 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2015 3:19 pm
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A guy I enjoy chatting with told me this... I ♥ it.

A lot of so called Dom's are jerks and nothing more. A true Dom has internal self confidence, he never needs to be mean or cruel. He respects and adores his little girl. He is there to nurture and coddle you. He is protector and guardian. He is a guide along the path of sexual exploration.
After all you are giving him such a gift You are giving over yourself. That is a rare and beautiful treasure.
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I love being a good, sweet, naughty little babygirl sub!
Posted:Jun 6, 2015 11:26 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2015 3:13 pm
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I just have to say that no matter what, I enjoy being in the world of kink! I've had a string of flakes and fakes but the joy I get out of being a babygirl submissive still trumps the crap. I have a little bit of experience under my belt now so I'm not green I'm not searching anymore but I'm active when I can be. I savor every single second when I do get to service a good caring but Dominant Daddy. I'm still in love with the idea of a Daddy Dom/babygirl submissive relationship. I know for a fact that I'm a true cum slut and cock worshipper, but not a pain slut.. 'I'm very submissive and obediant and eager to please a good and real Daddy It makes my world go round! Someday a good Daddy will really see me and make an effort to keep me in his life until then I'm gonna play... roleplay and being a sub is the spice of my life...
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I'm lost Daddy... where are you?
Posted:Apr 4, 2015 12:28 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2015 6:31 pm
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I'm just a sweet affectionate naughty little babygirl looking for the right Daddy that fits me. One that will train me and help me be the best for both of us. I hope to be an owned collared babygirl submissive someday to a Daddy Dom that will see my worth and enjoy all I have to offer. I love Daddy little girl roleplay but I'm into other things I want to explore. I'm on fetlife also, under this same name. I'm just a lost adult little girl searching for my Daddy. I need you and you need me... Where are you Daddy? I'm lost and I need you... I feel like I'm ready to give up and disappear into the vanilla world, where I'll never fully find myself or my potential. I want a Daddy that wants me all to himself. Doesn't want to share me. What kind of Daddy wants to share his sweet little babygirl slut and let another cock ruin his property with cum that's not his? All little girls need a Daddy... just like Daddy needs his little girl.
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Abandoned
Posted:Mar 6, 2015 6:50 pm
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2015 12:02 pm
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He probably don't even give a shit and on to the next poor woman that will end up like me in a few months. Abandoned, confused and wondering what the fuck happened. He seemed so sincere and laid back. Fun and our kinks matched So well. He said such nice things to me and treated me so good. I don't even want to trust Doms or Daddy Doms that tell me nice things anymore. Like they're all full of shit and just getting me to the point where I'm head over heels then... gone with not one word or clue anything was wrong.
I told him once if I ever do or say anything you don't like will you please tell me because I don't want to ruin this. He told me "Babygirl, there is nothing you can say or do that would chase me away. I'm a man, not like the you chased for so long"
I adored him so much. I would've done anything for him. He could've done any kinky freaky thing he wanted and I would've said yes please daddy thank you! Then out of the blue... nothing. He never demanded anything from me at all but I WANTED to do these extra little things for him. I craved to sit at his feet, kept my pussy shaved and always made sure I had a sexy outfit to wear for him. I would make myself lay a certain way next to him so I could hear his heart beat because I thought it was a beautiful thing. Even if my arm fell asleep and start feeling weird... I didn't care, fuck that dead arm feeling. I was listening to my daddies heart. When I would feel his skin start to prespire I would back off because I knew he didn't like to sleep hot. I'd back off and finally go to sleep myself. He would sit in this recliner I have and I liked to kneel between his legs, wrap my arms around his stomach, put my head on his chest and he would run his fingers through my hair. I felt so safe and special. Daddies special little girl. I called it "Daddy heaven" My own secret paradise on planet earth no other soul knew about. Gone. No word or anything just gone. I cry a few times a week when I go to sleep and whisper "Daddy why did you do this?" If he just wanted something casual and nsa he could've told me and I would've said ok cool. I'm gonna keep my search open then as we play. I cut off every guy I was fucking around with and he never asked. I did it on my own because I wanted to. I felt like if I want to fuck around on him I gotta find a guy better then him. I gotta fuck up, not down... just so much little things I'd never do for other guys. I truly felt like making him happy made me happy. I adored him and to him I guess I was nothing but something to play with until something better came along.
I asked him if he would be my daddy and he said "Of course babygirl I'll be your daddy" with the biggest smile on his face. Lies I guess.
I let my inner little girl cry over this anytime it's needed. The woman part of me has moved on, talking to other guys, . But I let my little girl cry as much as needed. He was my first real time daddy and he abandoned that little girl that he always encouraged to come and play. That part of me is so hurt and sad. Daddy left his little girl with no word or clue anything was wrong.
I will not chase, beg or try to get him back. You can't make someone be with you if they don't want to be. Plus he knows where I live and has my number. I refuse to let myself take the blame on this one. I try once in a while but I cut that shit off. I will not allow myself to look pathetic, desperate, or anything like that.
A few friends brought up... maybe he's married and wanted to live the fantasy. I guess if your careful, very good at hiding tracks and other things, of course it's possible. It doesn't matter now though because it all boils down to the fact that I'm more then likely the only one hurting on this.
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