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On teaching in the lisfestyle 2008-03-19
I’ve written before on my predilections towards public
play. However, that runs a distinct second to my favorite
activity, teaching (unless, of course, the two are combined
– but that’s for a different day). I’ve been asked before
what it is that I get out of teaching, principally by my sassy
but by others that I have taught as well. Many have felt that
it is a one-way transfer, that the ...
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Compromise 2008-03-11
I thought I'd pass along a couple of things I find make
life a lot easier. These are two things most people don't
seem to want to hear about: compromise and having realistic
expectations.
If you have a need for something and can't seem to attain
it, try to compromise. Maybe it won't be what you would
call perfect, but it will be close enough for you to experience
something similiar. Sure ...
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The Experienced Dom 2008-03-08
Okay , today's rant is - "I'll only play
with you if you are experienced."
Which is very smart and very good. But...
The next thing they want to know is who you've had this
experience with! And why aren't you still with them?
And if they were so great, why are you still looking? And
200 more questions along those lines...
A very wise Dom once told me, "Hey Breeze, the ...
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Converting Your Vanilla Lover 2008-03-07
True story, this is really how it went.
My significant other and I have been together for 5 years
now. We have a great vanilla relationship, but me being
stubborn, I always gotta push for more.
Like most couples our age, sex is pretty much a "date
night once a week" thing. Always the same, but always
pretty damn good, too.
The S.O. has known ...
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Training 2008-03-05
Training of a Master
After reading several articles about the lifestyle, occasionally
the subject of training is targeted. No, not the training
of submissives, but the training of Masters.
I will knowingly get negative feedback that a Master doesn't
need training. From what I read on here, it would be a smart
thing to invest in...if a Master is serious about the lifestyle. ...
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Diving In 2008-01-31
Like a lot of members here at Alt, this website has been my
first foray into this lifestyle. I know there are a lot of
seasoned pros here, but a search of profiles shows me that
a lot of us came to this site as newcomers.
When I joined, I tried to express my desires and fantasies
as best I could articulate them in my profile. In an attempt
to offer as much about myself as I could, I ...
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Strap-on 2008-01-31
I'd like to hear peoples views thoughts about mf strap-on
sex. pros cons likes dislikes or anything else that comes to
mind
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When you know, what you are? 2008-01-28
What you should do, when you know what you are?? well I'll say if you know wht you are then you should
come out with it.. stayin hidden doesn't help anyone
in the relationship..
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Is strapon gay? 2008-01-22
I've had a very difficult time ever bringing up the
subject of f2m strapon play with anyone I'm seeing
who isn't into "kink". It seems like people
think that any guy who likes his ass played with is gay. Is
that true? I thought that if if having my ass filled made
me feel good, it made all men feel good, so it couldn't
be gay. But women don't seem to see it that way. Any help?
Do most women think ...
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Domming 2008-01-13
Switch by nature. I say so because I feel so Dominant sometimes
I just want to be in control, and the rest of the time, you
know it 
Thing is, I would like to know where I could learn and get
more information on becoming a better Dom. Are there any
websites or books that teach you to become a perfect Dom?
All suggestions would help! Thanks, Kama...
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sexy music 2008-01-09
Any ideas for what type of music would be good while topping
a sub?? would like music without lyrics
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Flogging 2008-01-09
Flogging
The most important part of a flogger are the falls also called
lashes, thongs, tresses, strands, etc. These falls are
made of different materials, in different styles and with
different ends or tips. Handle and knob designs are mostly
a matter of personal taste as well as the maker's signature
(especially in the knobs). But the falls make a very real
difference in the sensation ...
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Want to Learn 2007-12-18
I am young and wanting to learn from a experinced Master.
If anyone has some help for me to get in this lifestyle as
a Master i would love to hear from anyone. Thanks
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"Fat" sex.... 2007-11-24
Me again  I'm a "BBW" and have only cum
one time {with a man} in 25yrs. I know pathetic My question is: What are the best positions to both of us
to use for incredible sex? I am submissive so I want what's
best for "my potential Man" as well as myself
Thanks again..
Christine
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Deep throating.... 2007-11-24
Hi..This is my first post. I've deep throated a few
men and they seemed to really love it BUT I have on occasion
scraped my teeth against their cock or their cock is thick
so my back teeth actually cut him. My question is...What's
the best position to be in so I can give "him"
the best blow job of "his" life?
Thank you..
Christine
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Advice needed... roleplay scenarios 2007-11-23
so... I am meeting with a young lady (yes, she's over the age
of consent, thanks for asking) and we are playing daddy/ - teacher/ schoolgirl
- daddy/babygirl games
basically I start off with a little plan to start the rolepaly
going and then after a while, we just let it all go from there.
Has anyone got any new ideas for scenarios - or enjopyable
scenarios that they use themselves
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I Desp neeed some advice or guidance can you help ? 2007-09-28
I've always been Top mostly due i suppose to my ex husband
and personality type but I am now at a place in my life where
I am free to explore My desires My wants My fantasies and
I have realised that I would very much love to switch roles
that the thoughts of it really turns me on. To the point where
I am thinking about it a lot but I am unsure of how to go about
it or even it I would be able to. ...
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Pvc - what do you use to give that wet look? 2007-09-07
I just got a new pvc catsuit and was wondering what do i use
to protect it & give it that wet look shine? Can anyone
give me some help? thanks rata
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My 2 Cents for submissives 2007-09-01
Many of you have asked that I write a little something for
the subs out there. I hope this helps..
M/many involved in the BDSM lifestyle have been introduced
to it through the Internet and online chat rooms. Online
can be very intense and very special. It can also lead to
great harm to many, just as realtime relationships can
be quite intense and special and for others just as harmful. ...
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Newbie Advice and Info 2007-08-08
Following, in no particular order, are a few points of advice
and general interest for those new to the swing scene in
general and the Alt scene in particular. It is blunt, frank
and un-PC article. The opinions expressed are those of
the authors and are largely based on our own anecdotal evidence.
We are confident these will hold up to objective scrutiny
or we wouldn't bother posting the article: ...
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What happens when a bottom discovers She loves to Top 2007-07-16
Well surly nothing new to this group - nor to the lifestyle
but defiantly a revelation to myself. Well perhaps not
such a revelation, I have always suspected I would like
to dominate men but had never been afforded the opportunity.
Well that is all in the past now. Last night the one man who has been able to control my bratty
spoiled self let in on a secret. He enjoys being controlled
and ...
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How do I introduce the "lifestyle" to my fiance? 2007-07-15
I'm newly engaged and have told my fiance about having
strap-on experiences with other men before him. But my
question is, how do I open the door for him about the lifestyle
and possibly playing with him? He tells me that he will do
anything to satisfy me..... Advice please
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surface piercing 2007-07-03
Can anyone tell me how long a corset piercing can remain
in? i really am interested in getting one. Thanks for any
information anyone can provide.
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Heartbreak and Trust ; Cyber Style 2007-07-02
I am wondering about the issue of "cyber relationships"
as it seems very treacherous ground to tread. I had a friend
write a letter to me and I have posted it [only with her permission]
within my blog.
I am really looking for feedback from other submissives
and Dominants to help her through this time. I am just unsure
what to say and am asking for the good opinion of what I feel
to be ...
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How to woo a woman in chat 2007-06-12
In the online universe it seems that men outnumber us girls
and we receive alot of emails a day as well as alot of attention
in chat. While this can be gratifying in some ways it can
also be annoying. You may very well be a wonderful man but
unless you are able to convey that in type then you aren't
gonna catch my attenion. In a public service effort I've
decided to add a few tips of my own to ...
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What am I doing wrong 2007-06-10
I have written many messages to different people. They
are somewhat brief but friendly and formal. I have not recieved
any messages back not even to say no thanks. Is there any
general advice from anyone out there on what I could do to
maybe help me out. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank
you.
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Need some advice please 2007-05-28
I love the thought of being anally penetrated by a dominate
woman with a strap-on but when ever i play about with a dildo
it just doesnt feel pleasurable. Has any one got any tips
on how i could make it feel better?
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Adult Forums 2007-05-10
I thought this would be the best place to put this. I wanted
to make an adult forum. Wondered if anyone knew of a good,
FREE place to find one. Preferably, a phpbb forum. If not,
thanks anyway! Thanks in advance.
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Tips on Professional Dommes? 2007-05-04
Has anyone ever visited a professional Dominatrix? Any
tips or advice? I'm thinking of going to one so I can
finally have the fantasy I want - domination, strapon and
humiliation
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How does one motivate one's partner to accept anal? 2007-05-03
My current partner is a very sensuous latin lady. When our
play gets to the point that rimming becomes a part, she at
first enjoys it until she realizes where the pleasure is
coming from. at that point she steers the play away from
the anal area even though she gets great pleasure from it.
Do I continue and try to increase the time she accepts the
attention to her ass? Hoping that eventually ...
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